Yes, I believe they can fall in love. I have been in love with one for 2 years now. I have been reading psychology and analysing his behaviour throughout our experience. We have not had sex as I am very cautious not to loose my objectivity. I noticed he felt love for me when I held his face in my hands. He was so frightened and I waited until he gave me eye contact. Then I couldn't help it, but my heart opened and sent him all the love I have for him through my eyes. In a short moment he was transfixed and I could feel the love he sent back to me. I then kissed him on the cheek and said good bye. I was high for days after and I'm sure he felt the same. What the hell? I know I'm playing with fire.
Narcissism is not labeled as a disease, it's used to describe a personality trait that a individuals have. I cannot think of a reason or a way that a personality trait such as a narcissistic or perhaps altrustic, would impact the ability to ''love'' someone.
In a scientific sense, love could be defined biologically through different substances that influence us, thus feeling affectionate towards someone. Or it could be defined as a feeling aroused when people form a personal connection with eachother. There is no reason to think that a personality traits like narcissism would in anyway hinder this phenomenom.
A Masochist is someone that loves pain, in short, and very generalized. Loving a narcissist is about pain, therefore only a masochist could love a narcissist. Having said that, I think someone was being very sarcastic when writing it as anyone can fall in love with a narcissist, they are very charming and morph themselves to you, for awhile. I think they were trying to make the point that only a masochist could enjoying loving a narcissist, due to the pain part. On that I concur.
narcissist.
Narcissists love only themselves.
There is no evidence that he is a narcissist.
Why bother? He will only be falling for those bits of himself that he sees in you.
A malignant narcissist cannot magically shed his damaging patterns of behavior to bestow unconditional love upon his child. A good parent is one who places his child's needs above his own. A narcissist always places their needs first.
try not to change him learn to love the way that he is
Eventually because they are in love with themselves.
! I'm not an expert (so ask an expert, a psychiatrist, a psychotherapist, we can't make a diagnosis), but I know what you're talking about because of my experience and interest.A narcissist is someone with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder.At the beginning, he'll make you feel like you're the woman of his dreams, then you'll fall in love. He'll become distant and he will humiliate you , he will tell you that you are "needy" or something like that. A narcissist is afraid of intimacy. He'll make you suffer, he'll date other women.He'll make you feel insecure and you'll start to wonder what mistakes you have made.A narcissist wants you to meet his needs but he is not an empathetic individual and is uncapable of responding to your needs. He's never received love from his parents (childhood wounds) so when he receives love, he feels uneasy. A narcissist doesn't really know what love is because he hasn't had it when he was a child (the "love object" wasn't there when he needed it), so he figures out love ("ideal love", love is just another of his fantasies). The narcissist develops a false self (being just himself isn't enough to get some love).
It's certainly possible. A narcissist may date another narcissist that is more selfish than they are to feel better about themselves. In turn say "i'm not as selfish as he/she is so that makes me above him/her). It's incredible and shocking the way people with this disorder think. It takes a lot of research to understand a narcissist.
The only "love" a narcissist knows is self-love. Their inability to empathize with anyone else means they are unlikely to know what love is. A narcissist will say anything to maintain their narcissistic supply. If you are the source of this supply, and they realised that if they said they don't know what love is will get you to increase that supply, then they will say it. Please be careful. Look after yourself.
narcissist person is a our self-love. he/she always show our personality,our beauty.