yes, if the step parent name is assigned to the child.
The child go to the other parent.
You will get temporary custody only until your spouse contests it in court. I am assuming that the child currently lives with you.
Being married or unmarried is not much of a determining factor when it comes to custody nowadays. In order to have custody changed you would need to prove that either your household and parenting abilities are substantially better than the other parent, or that their situation is detrimental to the children. Having a spouse does not necessarily mean that you are better able to care for the children, especially if the other parent has had custody for a significant length of time without the children having any problems in a single parent household.
A divorce with the custody of a child involved can get very tricky when one parent lives abroad. It is almost impossible to force the absent parent to pay child support, and if the parent takes the child to some countries it may be impossible for the US parent to get the child back,
You can petition to have the courts recognize that your spouse is not the father of the child, and unless he can show that he has been the parent that the child recognizes despite biology, and that he is more fit to care for the child, the court shoud terminate his rights and let you retain custody.
It would not be "automatic" but the petitioning spouse can receive a divorce under the state default laws. He or she will need to prove to the court that they have made every attempt possible to locate the absentee spouse before the divorce will be granted.
Not in and of itself. In most cases, the offended spouse will get custody, because the lack of moral values on the part of the offending spouse.
If you have a custody agreement that states you are to have the child at specific holidays or alternating holidays, you can file a contempt of court action against your spouse in the court with jurisdiction over the custody case. The non-compliant parent should also be made aware that their failure to abide by the custody agreement can endanger their status as a custodial parent as well if the non-custodial parent files for custody modification based on that. If you don't have a legal custody agreement on file, now would be a good time to get one. Courts are not concerned with "he said/she said" agreements.
Parents not evaluating their motives of intent for wanting custody. They must begin by being honest with themselves as to why they want to be the custodial parent of the child(ren)--Enjoy being with the child(ren);Guilt;Desire to give child(ren) as much as possible;Frustration;Hurt/spite regarding spouse or ex-spouse;Force spouse into favorable property division;Fear for child's well-being if in custody of another;Feeling that spouse doesn't really want the child(ren).see related links
Custody is granted based on what is in the best interest of the child and not on financial status. This is the reason that non custodial parent are equally responsible for the financial issues concerning the child's welfare.
The answer can vary depending on the state. If it is a non custodial day, but the parent that had custody that asked them to, and they are on the daycare's pick up list, it should be fine. If the parent that had custody that day did not give prior permission, or make the request of the step parent, it could potentially be interfering with child custody. The rules of child custody can vary a lot, not only per state, but also per case. A lot can come down to who your judge is. Your best bet is to contact your family attorney, and fill him or her in on everything that happened.
For those who aren't sure about the location of their ex-spouse, you can seek help from parent locator services at both the state and federal level. In addition, your local District Attorney can help you use the legal system to locate your missing spouse.