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Yes
If she has custody of the kids. Legal custody.
No, you can not, unless the custody order is modified by the court.
Under shared legal, this is something you both must agree on.
Yes he can. The court will award full custody to the mother or to a legal guardian if necessary. However, the father will be required to pay child support.
what type of mother would want this to happen ..if he is good enough to have joint custoday of his kids then why in the world would you want to give your kids to someone other then him
What do I do when my sons father hasn't been there for my sons in over 11 years and now wants custody?
As long as you have the children 51% of the time. Custody is not an issue regarded by the IRS.
You may have to pay child support to the one who has custody of your children.
Guardianship, provided father does not have First Right of Refusal. Even without it, he can file a challenge for custody.
Do the kids make fun of him for having your maiden name? Did you give him custody of the child? Is he his guardian? If so, then yes.
generally speaking the only way to stop paying court ordered support is to go to court and get the order changed.