No. Any such congress is strongly against the law in the United States. Additionally, not just one law would be broken, as various levels of rape, assault and child endangerment all come into play.
In addition to this, the potential for extreme psychological harm done to the daughter in this instance makes this a truly dangerous situation. If you're actually considering this as a possible act, I advise that you seek counselling on an urgent basis.
Obey the order and teach him to respect the court's authority. Do you also allow him to decide not to go to school and do other things he should be doing?see links
Over time, when teens and pre-teens develop eating disorders, there are many signs that you should keep your eyes peeled for. If your daughter never does sports or any kind of excercise, and you see she is developing a "bony structure" that may be a sign of bullimia or anorexia. At dinner or lunch time, if she cuts up her food or piles it up and talks a lot so she doesnt have to eat, that also may be a sign of anorexia or bullimia. Going to the bathroom after she eats a lot is a sign of bullimia. Additonal signs of an eating disorder are dark circles under her eyes, her clothes look huge on her, and she starts to buy outfits a few sizes below usual. Her grades could drop, and she checks the nutrition facts on everything. When these signs become relevent to your daughters everyday life, then you need to have a mother-to-daughter talk with her in a quiet room where she is free to say anything. Tell her that the decision she is making has a death consequence. Seek therapists or physcologists that can help talk to your daughter and raise her self-esteem.