Yes, but there is an ulterior motive.
yes they can. Someone said to me about 2 months ago they wanted a relationship. I didn't know them well enough so I said no. But now I really like them. But I'm not sure if they still feel the same =(
You know your relationship better than anyone else. It typically takes about 2 years to completely get to know a person but if you are happy go for it.
Many would say being close to a full year and still not showing to be definitive in wanting a sure relationship, no, you shouldn't stay. However, consider why your relationship is on an off, consider if the problems can be worked out given a bit more time, and, if they are to be worked out, consider if the relationship is worth the while staying in to begin with.
his last relationship was 2 months ago
Yes it can very well work out even if it is a long distance relationship, both of you must decide to make it work even if it is 6 month separation.
Wanting to get married after dating only 4 months is crazy, but it's obvious she sees this as a serious relationship. You knew you weren't serious about her 4 months ago, but you 'neglected' to mention this precisely because you were afraid she wouldn't have sex with you if you made your feelings clear. The choice is yours: you keep lying by omission, or you grow up and be honest starting now so that you don't go through life with various people categorizing you as a user and a sh*t. You tell her, "I don't want a serious relationship. I didn't make this clear in the beginning but we're not wanting the same thing." Then you do her and yourself a big favor and break up with her, so that she can find someone who wants a serious relationship and you can find someone who wants no strings sex (they're out there.)
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You're better off without the sort of person who just dumps you after 14 months. In any case, there's nothing you can do to force him back.
So drastically for wanting sex once or more a week to be fine for months without it ? i know sex drive declines in a man after 50 . I thought this happends gradualy not so sudden like in my husband case. I asked him why he said is just overworked and tired ( he always worked hard) and he blames it on old age. I truly hope is not what i think it is another woman . What are your thoughts on this?
Answer Not seeing your picture has it's draw backs so I have to ask you why you want to change, aren't you acceptable the way you are?
Like as in wanting to be more than friends? You just tell him. You don't say which sex you are so that might make some difference, but if you have been friends your whole life, I doubt much will change as far as the friendship goes. If it does go to the next level, the relationship will change, it always does.
As years (or sometimes months) pass, the newness of the relationship wears off. Sometimes people change and other times the man discovers that he doesn't want to be with that woman. Sometimes, the man finds someone he would rather be with. There are many other reasons a man might leave a woman he said he can't live without.