No. Only the court can do that.
What I would suggest is to not FORCE him to pay, but at least TRY to TALK HIM INTO IT.
No, but you can give your opinion. Do you have a father who can file for custody?
A father who does not have legal custody of his children cannot be forced to take care of those children while the mother, who has custody, is on vacation. And really, it would not be good for the children to be left with the father if that father actually didn't want to take care of them, but was forced to do so by some form of legal coercion. Children should be cared for by someone who actually wants to care for them. They will get much better care that way.
Yes, there have been couple who argued who was getting stuck with the kids. Usually because both had professions that left them little time for children.
Children should always come first so if your boyfriend spends quality time with them this is a great indication he is mature and a good father. It takes time for children to get use to the idea that their biological parents will never be together again. Communication between you and your boyfriend should be your top priority. Take it slow and easy as far as meeting his children and when the time is right start doing fun things with your boyfriend and his children; this does not mean you still can't take time out for your boyfriend. Don't force yourself on the children, but be friendly even if they aren't all that friendly to you. When in doubt put yourself in their shoes.
I believe that getting your friend to dump your boyfriend is wrong. Tell her she has to do it herself or it will really break his heart. If her boyfriend is really immature he wont believe you if you tell him anyway. If you have to do it, break it to him gently, somewhere along the lines of "Amy really likes you but she thinks it will be best if you just stayed friends, maybe you should talk to her about it, sort things out." That will force your friend to talk to him herself. Hope this helps!
You can request that the grandparents take over the job of raising the children (presumably because you no longer feel capable of doing it yourself) and if they agree, then you just do it. If they don't agree, you can't force them. Your alternative is to turn the children over the a state child welfare agency.
If the father has legal custody the child should live with him. What does the custody agreement say?
it takes about 9 pounds of force to break your arm
Tell him you feel neglected and force him to give in or break up, don't be kept out. 177
1. get married 2. be supportive of him and stay true to him while he's gone 3. break up with him
we say it is a balanced force