Can someone help you with a relationship problem?

Answer 1

I've been in relationships over the years, a lot? I'm not sure if there is a definitive answer to that, but I've been in a few. When relationships become stale, bland, and boring, you can tell that there is an issue. Keep the spark there, because if the spark is not active, you can easily feel frustrated. When you begin to experience subtle differences on how each other answers one another, that is another sign, such as arguments and such.

All in all, just be considerate of the other person's feelings.

Answer 2

The appropriate solutions for relationship problems are as many as there are relationships. Each solution must be based on the two individuals involved and the problem they're having.

There must be open communication; are you able to say what you really feel or do you fear a response of self defensiveness, anger, or repercussions. The ability to communicate is a key element to resolving relationship issues.

Many relationship problems are based on each persons expectations; what each expects to other to be; how each expects the other to behave; what each person expectations are for the relationship. So many problems develop in relationships when a person's expectations do not match reality.

And, believe it or not, a big factor in relationships is motives; most people never ask themselves why they want a relationship with this person. You may hear a great deal of talk about why a person thinks they want this relationship, but they usually are superficial reasons. They talk about the person's looks, what they do for a living, where they went or what they did, etc. They never talk about and usually don't think about the underlying motives which are usually based on ego and self esteem.

To find an appropriate solution to relationship problems, no matter what they may be, you need to know what the problem really is. Using communication, understanding of your expectations, and examining your own motives can help to uncover the true problem.

Answer 3

Yes, many people can help you with relationship problems. Who you go to really depends on what the problem is. If it is a smaller problem, you could go to one of your peers. Try to pick someone that knows you pretty well, is low drama, and doesn't tend to gossip. Keep in mind, if it is someone that gossips to you, it is probably someone that gossips about you. If you don't want your business spread around, it is better to avoid telling it to someone like that.

If it is a more serious problem, like abuse or drugs, it is important to go to an adult friend or relative that you trust. Even someone like a councilor, preacher, parent (even if you are an adult), or athletic coach could potentially help you out. Sometimes, you already know the answer that you need, you just need to hear it and have your thoughts confirmed.

Answer 4

Talk to the other person about it. It's okay, things will get better!

Answer 5

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