Yes he may. Whether or not such a motion would be granted depends on the laws in your state or country and whether or not the principle of in loco parentis is recognized and established.
Yes, but child custody can not be finalized.
Custody rulings have nothing to do with who files for the divorce first.
Yes he can.
Only NC has jurisdiction, nor should the child be taken away from the other parent.
No.No.No.No.
You have to file at your local Cout House for temporary custody of a child. The court will decide if you get temporary custody or not depending on the circumstances. Temporary custody can be contested in court.
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Once the divorce is final, the couple cannot file a joint petition. If a "decree nisi" has been entered, but the divorce is not yet final, they can still file a joint petition. yah you are right your comments i like it. <a href="http://www.divorcedealer.com/">do it yourself divorce</a>
A boyfriend or stepfather has no legal right to the child so no, you can not.
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Divorce will not affect filing chapter 7. If the divorce is final, you will have to file separate chapter 7s. If the divorce is not final, or has not happened, you can file a joint chapter 7.
In a divorce, the other spouse has to be notified of the motion for divorce, and they also have to be notified of your intention to sue for custody fo the children. So, no, it's not possible to be granted a divorce or custody of the children without the other spouse being notifiied of the intent.