You can touch one with it on. Fuses are fuses... they have a plastic outer shell to protect them, and if you touch that, it's not going to hurt anything.
put the fuse back in and over ride the relay.
when my car did this it was a blown fuse
If you need to ask how to replace a fuse, you need to step away from the car and never touch it again.
To any fuse in the fuse box that turns on and off with the key switch like the windshield wipers. Have you tried the radio fuse?
Stall it or disconnect the fuel pump with the fuse if its an automatic!
Unplug the fuse labeled "fuel pump"
Remove the fuse.
I would check to see if the bulbs are loose or even if wires are loose. Check the grounds to see if they are good, and be sure that there are no exposed wires, this could cause a short if they touch anything. Next, check your fuse panels. If the fuse is bad the lights should stay off but I have been surprised by stupid stuff before. Be sure that your car does not have a feature that allows the car to determine how light it is outside. Modern cars have features that enable to the car to automatically turn on the lights when it is dark. The car can also turn off its lights when it gets light outside.
Fuse could be blown, or a speaker wire loose or come off.
remove the alarm fuse
If this is the fan that cools the engine it will run for a while after the car is switched off. If its the internal heater then I haven't a clue.
I have the same car, its right behind your fuse box...have to take the cover off the fuse box to get it out cuz its way back there...