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Can you trust your boyfriend if he's mildly abusive and he's trying to do something about it and if you have children with him what are the chances that he'll be abusive to them?
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∙ 8y ago
The chances are pretty good, but if he is willing to get help and is activley seeking it, he should be able to stop being abusive. It is up to you if you are willing to stick it out and see if he does stop. You will both probably need some counseling; separate and couples.
The chances are high. See the statistics - the majority of abusers abuse both spouse and children.
Unless you know for sure he's seeking counseling (the only way to help control his abusive behavior) then don't buy it! Don't marry someone who is abusive and expect to have children with them because if they aren't getting counseling then their chances of ever having a normal relationship are nil! Be part of his so-called "changing" and try to attend any group therapy you can with him if it's available to be sure he is actively trying to get better. The percentages of abusive people getting better is not as high as some people would have you believe. Abusers often think it's other people's faults and if they are faced by their mate with the fact they will leave if the abuse doesn't stop the abuser will lie, promise the sun, moon and stars, but do little to help themselves.
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Will an abusive ex still try to control you even after you left?
if he is that abusive chances are he will but then only if you tolerate him.
What to ask your boyfriend to see if he likes you?
If he is already your boyfriend chances are he like you. But if want to see if he really cares about you ask if he would still care about you if you moved or something like that
Is abusive behavior enhirited?
Yes, it is. If someone is abused or sees/hears a lot of abuse when they are younger chances are they are going to be abusive themselves.
Can you leave if you are in an abusive relationship and take your children?
AnswerSome women can, others can not. This is dependent on your situation, and the relationship that you have with your children. Often, if they are close to your abusive partner; taking them will not be an option. That would only become an option after a court case. Taking your children with you is often a favorable decision, especially if they are young. However, if taking them increases your chances of being hurt - do not do it. The most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is when the victim leaves, so do not place yourself in additional danger. You must assess the situation.
If a man showed abusive signs early in the relationship but now acts mentally healthy what are the chances he is still abusive?
if he want to commit sadist acts with you such as murder, bondage, or bestiality, then he is prolly still abusive.
How do you leave an abusive husband and win custody of the children if the abuse is not physical and you have no evidence of it?
If the abuse is not physical, but mentally abusive; and you feel the children are not safe with him. Then you must simply file for divorce. There will be a custody hearing but if you present your side stating you feel the children are better off with you, chances are you will win. you must prove the children are better off with you and that you can provide for them. most judges feel the children are better of with the mom anyway so you have an advantage there. Chances are the children have either overheard or witnessed the abuse occur. If he really battles you for custody, the children may be consulted by a social worker to assess which parent will be a better fit for the children. As far as leaving him, Consult a friend on what plan of action to take. Theres always family too, you'll need some form of support to really get through this time.
Can get an answer from an abuser if you ask them reason for their abusive nature?
No, because if they are still being abusive, they see the world from another perspective. If you are expecting that this will happen or that you can convince someone that they are abusive, chances are that you won't see it happen. About all you can do is to call them on their behavior, saying how it makes you feel. A good book is Patricia Evan's The Abusive Relationship.
What should you buy your boyfriend for your anniversary?
cook/bake him his favorite food/dessert.. buy him gadgets or ps3 something like that but for me and my boyfriend, we'll just have a picnic, (its where we used to go, and a place where no one knew us) and I'll cook his favorites.. well, give him something special. something to remind him what you do on your first date, or how you two meet.. or personalized a gift for him.. and that's how it becomes special.. its not about the gifts, its about how much you love that person.. i love my boyfriend!
What are the chances of getting pregnant if your boyfriend pulled out before he came?
The same chances as if he hadn't...it's called pre-ejaculation.
Should you give chances to your boyfriend?
Depending on how bad him mess up was.
How do you catch a boyfriend on club penguin cheating on you?
If you have a boyfriend in a virtual reality game, chances are you're going to grow up to be a lesbian.
What is drug peer pressure?
This are influences that comes from friends to use abusive drugs. These drugs are harmful and affects the chances of progress in life.
