Henry VIII acted against the Pope's wishes but I don't know if he hesitated in doing such.
If anything, Popes get their wishes fulfilled by actually becoming elected and accepting election in papacy. One can imagine this would be a biggest wish for any of our popes through history.
Traditionally, popes are not cremated; they are buried. The Catholic Church maintains a strong preference for burial as it aligns with the belief in the resurrection of the body. However, there is no formal rule against cremation, and in some cases, such as with non-papal clergy, cremation may be permitted. Ultimately, the decision rests with the individual pope and their wishes.
There is no list of names. A pope can choose any name he wishes and even keep his birth name.
The newly elected pope chooses what name he wishes to be known by during his reign. He does not have to choose a new name. He is free to use is Baptismal name.
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Popes do not elect popes. Popes are elected by the cardinal electors.
The vast majority of popes have been Italian. As of February of 2013 there have been only 18 popes from other countries.
There have been 17 popes from France, the second behind Italian popes.
the popes had more power over the kings
Papaphobia is the fear of popes.
No, it is not true that popes can marry.
There have been 217 Italian popes and only 49 non-Italian popes.