Do a married man really love his lover?

Answer 1

Yes but it's not right and he should learn to control his feelings. -- It'll happen sometimes. You'll find and marry a woman that you find agreeable when you're younger and then find out when you're older that she's not so agreeable. Then after several years of suffering, you'll find someone you really click with. But too f***ing bad! You're still married to the same disagreeable person and they will not let you go with out serious physical or financial harm to you or your new best friend. Best thing to do is just suck it up and let love die between you and your more ideal mate. Life is crap sometimes. Learn to live with it. I've now gone almost 11 years without a physical relationship with my wife and so f***ing what, at least I'm alive and in one piece. The one time when I did meet face to face with my agreeable mate, I witnessed a small kitten in the middle of the road getting crushed by a car. If that was a sign from God or whatever, I still don't know to this day but whatever it was, it hit me right between the eyes and I got the hint. I left that situation and never looked back. Sometimes that's what love is...a crushed kitten. That's life.. live with it or get f***ed by it. It's gonna happen to you whether you want it to or not.

^^^ I do NOT agree with the above. Of course, you should not cheat on your wife - it is wrong, cruel, and arrogant. However, if you do become smitten, which is entirely possible, there is nothing you can do, and there is nothing mean about that - it was not purposeful, it is life. It would be better for both you and your wife if you left your wife instead of living a lie. For all you know, your wife may not love you either. Talk to her and sort out whether your marriage will continue before doing anything such as cheating, which must NOT be done under any circumstances. But, make sure that you definitely like this other woman before leaving your wife, as otherwise there could be horrible consequences. Remember - NO rash decisions; this is your life. Is it really wise to trade in marital comfort and happiness for a little crush? Or is it a bad, uncomfortable marriage as an alternative to true love and happiness?

ANSWER:

Can a married man, yes of course and also married woman as well in different eye view of a person. Maybe they will tell us that it's a big no- no and its only for our wife, but your husband has different ways when it comes to who is special in his heart.

I will give you my own personal experience with the man I married, for 2 months he was smitten with this woman he met on a dating site. If your talking about a man who felt like being back in high school, that will be my husband. He can't start his day without calling his mistress, and can't sleep without hearing her voice. If that is not smitten I guess I will call it as my husband was falling hill in love with her. Can we blame some married men to feel this way?, it depends right, but if the married man doesn't love his wife anymore, that will be the sign he will have. The other woman is new, the other woman is different, the other woman has different qualities, it's a bit better than his wife. And this is the man I married.

Answer 2

Define "lover".