We paid our pastor (who had done our pre-marital counseling as well, which was free because we are both members of his church) after our ceremony. We gave the money and the responsibility to a groomsman with instructions to give it to the pastor after the wedding when it seemed like a calm moment. A friend of mine told me that she paid hers at the rehersal dinner because she did not want him to think they weren't going to pay (as it was an optional honorarium, and not required.) I paid $100, and she paid $250. We're not exactly sure what the appropriate etiquette is. Although my logic was that it was a gift, and was given in thanks for the job he did after all was said and done.
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Traditionally it is the Groom's family who will pay for the rehearsal dinner.
Traditionally, The groom's parents pay for the rehearsal dinner, the wedding flowers, the honeymoon, and the alcohol for the reception.
Wedding Rehearsal was created on 1932-10-01.
The wedding to do list for groom's parents include hosting the engagement party. They provide the couple with a list of guests and host the rehearsal dinner on the evening before the wedding. They may also contribute to some of the wedding expenses.
The duration of Wedding Rehearsal is 1.4 hours.
Wedding Rehearsal - 1932 is rated/received certificates of: Australia:PG Australia:G (TV rating) UK:A
To host a budget wedding rehearsal, you will need to get the entire wedding party on board. Then you can rent a small hall and have a potluck dinner.
Often the wedding planner is not invited to the rehearsal dinner, but if the couple want to invite the wedding planner they should also invite his or her's spouse.
Our pastor met five times with the kids for pre-maritial counseling, plus the rehearsal, plus the actual wedding. I figure he spent a minimum of 10 hours with the event, and $25/hour is a reasonable middle-income wage in these parts, so we're giving him $250.
It is proper etiquette for the parents of the groom to pay for the rehearsal dinner. If it is necessary for the couple to pay then they should set a budget and only spend what they have available!
The mother of the bride goes to the church rehearsal where the wedding party practices what they should do and say and then there is generally a Wedding Rehearsal Dinner after which all members of the wedding party (including the parents of the bride and groom.) There is no dress rehearsal for most brides or wedding party, but the bride and her brides maids would have to go into the wedding shop where the wedding dress and brides maids dresses were purchased to be sure no extra alterations have to be made on any of the dress and the mother may attend this if she asks the bride (which is generally not a problem.)