Do you have to learn about sex in sixth grade?

Answer 1

Public Schools generally start sex education around 5th grade for girls and 6th grade for boys. If you do not wish for your child to learn at this age you can contact your school and ask for a waiver; however some disciplines believe that sex education should start in the home and continue there.

There is no specific required time frame to learn about sex. However, it is a good idea to discuss sex and its results, good and bad, with children at a fairly young age (around 4th-7th grade, in my opinion) in order to inform them of the consequences. Initially a more basic introduction of sex may be appropriate. In 5th or 6th grade, a child may simply need to be told what sex is, the basic mechanics of how it happens, and the importance of know that while it is not a bad thing, it is possible to get pregnant or sick from having it.

At an older age (8th-9th grade) it is more appropriate to discuss specifics, such as various STDs, HIV/AIDS, rape and rape prevention/help, more depth regarding pregnancy and its risks, and - most importantly - contraception (including the option for abstinence). It is important to teach about contraception, because while abstinence may be appropriate for some kids and teens, for others it is not, and it is important for them to be aware of how to protect themselves from harmful diseases and teen pregnancy.