If you are not sure you should see if there is any reason that feels good to you to keep the relationship going. If it is only sexual you may as well keep him if he performs well enough. Just make him wear a condom because you wont know what sort of STD,s he may have picked up. And let him know why.
Answer 2 (ALTERNATIVE)Since the question is worded as if you are asking me personally, I say that depends on a lot of different factors. I feel that cheating is wrong in the sense that in order to cheat, it must be happening behind the others back. Biologically, it is highly unlikely for somone who cheats to not do it again. It is however possible to remove the 'behind the back' part of the equation making it possible to eliminate cheating.
If both people in the relationship are of the non-jealous type it might be possible to work something out to make the relationship an open one. You would need to set ground rules for what is and is not allowed to be talked about as far as encounters in the open relationship. As long as both can come to an agreement where no one feels left out, you could be exclusive with each other as far as 'love' but both have your fun of casual encounters on the side. Keep in mind, for this to work love must be there for both of you. You both would have to be genuinely okay with this arrangement.
Another think that you could consider is adding others such that the encounters are in the same room. For example, one time you can find an extra girl to join you and another an extra guy, or you could find another couple. Just make sure everything is fair and everyone is really okay with this arrangement.
WARNING: If you do this, be sure to properly protect yourselves from STDs and get tested regularly!
I would.
Because the one who's cheating doesn't recognize that what they're doing is wrong and then gets mad at their partner. It's called being a hypocrite.
Talking about issues with your partner is the best thing you can do, resolving issues could save a failing relationship.
You should be able to trust your partner. There is no physical way to tell. You need to work on your relationship. Consider counseling.
A person who cheats may project their guilt onto their partner by accusing them of cheating as a way to deflect attention from their own actions and justify their behavior. This behavior can also be a sign of manipulation and a way to control the narrative of the relationship. Communication and addressing underlying issues are important in resolving these accusations.
I strongly advise you not to cheat, if you or your partner are not working out, leave, or have counselling. Do not get into a relationship you don't want to be in.
Try to get the spark back, and try to trust the person again. Make sure your partner proves to you that he/she has changed. You never know if they're lying or not. Be careful, and good luck!
no but he was in a partner relationship for something else no but he was in a partner relationship for something else
You are better off without them
It's a double standard. The cheater continues with their behavior but expects their partner not to betray or transgress from the relationship. The relationship is the foundation they expect to return to when they tire of the affair--if the other person strays or leaves, they lose that "balance". In some cases, the cheater is so emotionally removed from the relationship that they don't care if their partner cheats as well. everyone wants their cake and to eat it too
Honestly... If this person won't leave their partner, then that means that they are happy. You can't force someone to leave their partner because YOU love them. Either hope and pray that eventually they do leave their partner, or try and find someone new.
ANSWER:If your talking about yours and his relationship, wow it will be impossible. It doesn't matter how much you love him or her what's going on is not right. It's about self survival.