yes
Bob is divorced. He wrote a book about how to save your marriage. Oops.
When a spouse has had an affair and broken that bond of trust it is difficult to earn back. Going to marriage counseling may help the situation and explain to the spouse that marriage counseling is not about blaming one of the spouses, but giving them tools to learn to communicate in their marriage and know how to rectify any future problems in their marriage. Many couples may have experienced one spouse having an affair and it is not uncommon for both couples to have an affair, but, they do manage to save their marriage. It is entirely up to the couple.
The best way to handle infidelity in marriage, if you want to save the marriage, is to seek counseling. If you want to make it work, this is an important step.
No, it is a waste of energy for you to hunt down the woman that had an affair with your husband. You are going after the wrong person! Your husband is an adult and he was at fault and he could have formed the word 'no' to any affair, yet he persisted and it is your husband that you should be communicating too and perhaps marriage counselling to help you with tools to better your marriage if you want to save it.
I am sure you heard this before, but here goes again It takes, both of you and a marriage councelor...
That's your decision. First step would be marriage counseling.If the cheating partner is unwilling, the prospects don't look good.
so he wouldn't get adultry charges HE DISCLOSED THE AFFAIR BECAUSE HE LOVED HIS WIFE AND DIDN'T WANT TO RUIN HIS MARRIAGE!
Amy Waterman is the author of the book, "Save My Marriage Today". The book works in helping couples save a troubled marriage. Couples learn how to recover from an affair, how to communicate effectively and how to bring passion back into the relationship.
Yes if you really want your relationship to work and listen to the advice you are given.
Save yourself the future agony. Leave!
Marriage Is a Private Affair - 1944 is rated/received certificates of: Finland:S Sweden:15
Is the affair still going on? Do you want to work on your marriage? Exposing the affair purely for revenge tactics instead of using it as a way to end the affair to work on your marriage will likely backfire on you. To expose the affair out of spite, in some people's eyes, will sink you down to a level commiserate with your spouse, fairly or unfairly. So only do this if you want to save the marriage, instead of taking a potshot at your wife. However, if you want to expose, take a huge deep breath before doing so. Let go of any hurt, anger, vengeance or anything like that which will taint what you are saying and make you sound like a tattletale. Be informational and let them know that you are exposing because you want the affair to end and that you and your wife need their help and support in rebuilding your marriage. Understand they already have you in mind as a 'bad guy' so you have to use very neutral and calm language. Do not insult her or try to build yourself up. Think 'completely neutral' - informational, not opinionated. State the facts only, and ask for their help. Let them form their own opinions in this matter. If you try to influence it, they will be suspicious of your motives. Keep in mind that if you expose the affair and your wife still chooses to be with this other person, there is no way to work on the marriage. Then go into protective mode for yourself---get your finances in order, collect hard evidence the affair (texts, emails, letters) seek out an attorney and get a divorce that favors your terms, not hers, since she is the one who chose to leave the marriage.