Divorce him and if he threatens or attacks you, then call the police
Devorce him
Yes, by most accounts, her relationship with her husband Bobby Brown was abusive, and that is one reason why they got divorced.
We don't know your husband or his girlfriend, nor what a "cope" is in any sense that a person could be one.
People tend to say things in anger. Since your husband is abusive you should consider going to a Woman's Abuse House to find help and learn tools to cope. No one has the right to abuse the other. Your relationship is toxic and you are in control of your life and not your husband. To tell him you are going to kill him is a serious accusation and when you get to this point it's time for you to leave this abusive relationship.
Discuss it with your husband to decide if brother should be asked to leave; or if you are somewhere other than your home, if you and your husband should leave. No one has the right to interfere with your relationship with your husband (other than an abusive situation).
The truth is always a good idea. What do I tell people at work? Professionally speaking, I'd prefer people at work not know, but I also don't want anyone to think I'm a bad mother because I left my husband - one that seems like such a great guy.
You can if you like. I mean, there aren't any actual laws against it. If you're saying "write one for me", then ... no. It's not MY homework.
Anyone abusive or not would get mad if you humilate them in public that only makes you abusive why would you want to be abusive or humilate some one when you know how that feels? GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE.The best way to make an abusive person wake up is when you completley dismiss them from your life and not let them have any effect on you what so ever and you are happy and doing well without them.
One word: Drugs.
Try to find someone you can trust. Or someone you know isn't abusive. At any sign of violence, be wary and stay away from that person. Eventually, you will find the right person. But remember this: don't be shy. You never know whether the next person is like the person before that one if you keep shying away from them.
Armenian men are as abusive as men from any other culture. It is unfair to pick one culture as being especially abusive when so many cases of abuse are found in every culture.
==One thing at a time== If your husband is truly abusive (you're not just looking for an excuse to wander), then you need to get out of the relationship, and fast! Once you have removed yourself from the abusive relationship, and have a chance to reflect on the reasons you chose a man like that, and also the reasons for remaining in the relationship once you found out that he was abusive, then...and only then, you should feel free to look for, and engage in, other relationships. If your old boyfriend truly cares about you, he will understand and give you the space you need to work through your present problems. Good luck. Bugger off with the old flame if you've got any sense.
Just ask. Any one can make up some excuse for why he/she cheats. The cheater is the only one who knows why, what, when, how and for.