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Most of the time. The trick is not to LET him/ her back.
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How can an abuser change?
go to counciling
My abuser dumped me and has not contacted me at all for over three weeks so should I consider him gone for good or do you think he will be back?
Don't ever count on an abuser 'gone for good.' He may well get tired of whatever he is doing or whomever he is seeing and be back! The best thing you can do is go to your local Abused Women's Center and ask for help in your situation. The counselors are there to offer good advice as to how to handle your abuser; your legal rights and if need be a safe place to go too called a 'transition house' if it is necessary.
Where can a person go who has been a victim of a narcissistic abuser?
Go ANYWHERE! Go to your family. Go to your friends. Go to another apartment, house or condo. Go to church. JUST GO. Don't look back. I have been where you are and I can tell you with CERTAINTY......move on! Don't wait until tomorrow. Don't try to fix it. Don't stay for the kids. Don't stay for the abuser. Put this in your rearview mirror and keep going. Good Luck.
What kinds of things can family do to help a substance abuser become clean?
The best thing that family can do for a substance abuser is stage an intervention. Once that intervention has been staged, present the abuser with the opportunity to go to rehab.
What nicknames does Raushan Hammond go by?
Raushan Hammond goes by The Abuser.
What are the ways in which you cannot be heavily involved with an abuser but want to keep the relationship?
Abuser of what? drugs or you? Convince them to go to anger management, or rehab. talk to them and try to make them stop.
Is it bad to go around talking about your abuser and what they did to you?
If you are fearful of speaking out about your abuse, find legal ways to keep the abuser from harming you.On the very contrary. Sharing what you went through can help you achieve closure. Secrecy is the abuser's weapon!No. Exposure is protection.
What are the penalties in court for abusing someone?
The abuser would probably have to go to jail.
Was your abuser really that bad if you feel worse without him?
Abusers are bad. Period. It is common for someone who has been abused to feel lonely when the abuser becomes absent, but it is because of the stress of change. If you feel yourself running back to your abuser, get help. The situation will only escalate otherwise.
Is natural to feel sad and go back to your abuser even when you have left them?
Abuse shouldn't happen but it happens. Most people tell themselves that the person will change, but they rarely do. My advice is to stay away from the abuser. They don't deserve you if they abuse you. Plus the person may get more violent and seriously hurt you or worse. ACW
What does it mean when you dream about your ex husband that you divorced due to abuser and the dream was i went back to him?
It means you want him back, but you have this feeling that you can't have him back. Do you get what i'm saying?
Is lonelyness a reason go back with abuser?
NO! NEVER! Abusive relationships are very very bad and noone deserves to be in them. Loneleness is not a reason to go back to an abuser. Long time victims tend to want to return to the abuse because they are so used to being abused. If you are considering go back into your abusive relationship or having feelings of loneliness that are uncontrolable talk to a conselor or seek medical advice from a doctor. Antidepressants could be prescribed to you so that you don't feel so alone. There are also woman support groups and male support groups all of people that have been abused before. Seek help and reach out, going back is NEVER the answer!
