Does doing intimate acts with and for your spouse mean you feel intimacy too?

Each partner should know (by good communication skills) what the other enjoys sexually and that way both get extreme pleasure out of making love. Just pleasing one partner for the sake of it and not enjoying it yourself will lead to resentment and the feeling you are left out of pleasurable love making. Love making is actually an art form that should be investigated to a degree and practiced. Sit down with your spouse and discuss what each of you likes or dislikes.
Each partner should know (by good communication skills) what the other enjoys sexually and that way both get extreme pleasure out of making love. Just pleasing one partner for the sake of it and not enjoying it yourself will lead to resentment and the feeling you are left out of pleasurable love making. Love making is actually an art form that should be investigated to a degree and practiced. Sit down with your spouse and discuss what each of you likes or dislikes.