Does spanking exist within marriage

Answer 1

Spanking in Marriage

Most definitely. Sometimes for sex & sometimes for discipline or both. With the discipline it often leads to sex. I am spanked, paddled and caned. It usually begins on clothing (unless I've been really bad!) and then it is done strip naked. And he is paddled & caned if he acts up. We are both very honest with each other, even when we have to tell the other one something that will earn a spanking.

I have a close relationship with two neighbors whom I paddle on occasion. This is done at their request when they feel they have been bad. My husband is fully aware that I paddle these ladies and that one of them has paddled me. There is no sex between us ladies, just spanking. It is usually done on the bare buttocks - to assure there is no bruising or lasting damage.

It Does in Mine

My wife, with my consent, has been spanking me for a number of years. It started with my interest in the activity as romantic play; it just seemed sexy to me. When we got comfortable with that aspect of it, we discussed whether we should "step it up a notch" from time-to-time and make it a discipline experience for some mutually agreed misbehaviors/careless habits we both wanted to correct. We are now comfortable with the discipline aspect of our consensual spanking activity and are pleased with the results. The several times a year that this happens, I am usually over her knees in my "birthday suit" promising to be less careless or better behaved as she applies a stinging, uncomfortable spanking to my upturned rear-end with a thin, light paddle. Several days of soreness easily beats several days of fussing and bad feelings. Our discipline activity is also one-way; she spanks me but I do not spank her. Receiving a fanny warming has no romantic value for her, but giving one does.

We enjoy spanking in marriage prior to IC. It's been a mixed bag. Early on I used to ask her to spank me for arousal. Then I spent years in trying to excite her to be spanked, starting softly. Trouble is although she was submissive it remained soft and she was doing it to please me. Eventually after discussion we faced the truth. It is very clear that I am the one who liked it and now the release is fantastic. I allow her to go all the way but always make sure it finishes in IC. Sometimes if she has come and I haven't it is a great opportunity to be spanked to completion. We keep punishment and domination out of it though as I don't think that is right.

Answer 2

Everyone knows it does in some marriages. It does in our but not for punishment. It's always the wife who does it.

Answer 3

Yes