Get over a breakup

Answer 1

Breakups are ALWAYS hard but sometimes it's just good to be the bigger person realise that you can do so much better and try your hardest to forgive and forget. Remember it wasn't your fault it is just life. Hang out with your friends for a month or so and realise friendship is the cure to breakups

Answer 2

In two words: "It sucks"

It is easily one of the single most painful things that you can ever experience in your life. I think that one of the most helpful things to remember is that no matter how great you were together, no matter how much fun you had or how much your friends/family loved him/her. It no longer matters. Why? Because one or both of you has decided that for whatever reason, the relationship was just not worth working on, improving or fixing.

If you are really honest with yourself, once you get over the denial and anger and pain, ask yourself, do you really want to be with a person who has looked at you and all you have to offer and said "That is not what I want for the rest of my life"? Or alternatively, a person you looked at an could no longer see a future with?

Seriously, do you want to settle for a broken relationship where he/she doesn't care enough to enjoy every minute of who you are in the way that you need it?

If you look at the situation for what it really is, you will see that eventually it would have ended anyway. If your significant other was not happy, thank goodness that you found out now before you wasted the rest of your life with someone who will never be satisfied with all that you offer. If you broke up with him/her, then you did the both of you a favor. You moved out of the way so that your significant other could find a better match, and so can you.

Feel the pain, watch funny movies, redecorate your room, then go on Wikianswers and answer breakup questions. It will show you that EVERYONE has to deal with varying degrees of breakups and that just as many billions of people have done over the course of history, you will get over it. Not today or tomorrow or the day after, but someday when you least expect it.