Here's the thing you have met someone in one of the online chatrooms you started chatting and talking almost everyday for 5 months now you fell in love with him it's weird cuz you haven't even met him?

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Aw! Good luck! But, having done this myself, I'll say be wary. Not that he could be a serial killer, but rather, be wary of your heart! Thing is, if you've been chatting online, when you read what he writes, you'll be reading it the way YOU would say it. You'll attach your own meanings to it etc. You'll be dreaming and filling in the gaps which could mean when/if you do meet up he could still be totally different than what you were expecting. People can be much different online than in person, even without meaning to be. Plus, you havent smelled him yet! Love is also a chemical thing hun, your body sussing out whether he's good breeding stock or not. So, chances are you meet up and he 'smells' all wrong (even though you cant smell it lol). So, be cautious sweetie, don't plan the wedding in your head or anything, you could drive yourself crazy for no reason. Meet up with him..but stay cool :) The sooner the better...if it works then you have more time sharing each other for real. And if it doesn't work, you can save time that could have been wasted on him.

But also, be wary, if your gonna meet, meet in a public place, where there is lots of people, or bring a friend along, in case something really bad happens.

i fell in love with a guy over the internet we were going to met, we both felt the same way about each other have spoke to him for 7 months were gonna go travling together, but i found myself a boyfriend that was not on the internet i just thought the boy a spoke to on the internet was stringing me along (u)