go up to her and say would you like to come to such in such dance if she says no then there is plenty of other fish in the sea!
Heck no! I'd be thrilled for a woman to ask me to dance.
Omg I'm a girl i would hate it if a guy asked me to the dance the day of you can ask her to dance on the day of or you can ask her to the dance the day before
Edward
It is absolutely okay to ask a guy to the dance. Especially if you are tired of waiting for him to ask you. Just because you are a girl it doesn't mean you can't do things that guys do.
Ask him anyway and say if he doesn't want to dance then he can sit at the table and watch with a drink, guarding your coat and bag.
As long as the 'girlfriend' isn't your friend.
ask them then dance with them
carefully if you are personal friends, you should ask if they are going to the dance, then ask if he/she will go with you! if you arent to familiar with the guy/girl than try to talk with them and flurt,than ask him/her! :D
the guy should ask out the girl because it is more formal and you look like a tool when you get asked out by a chick. except when its a saide Hawkins dance
yes i think a girl can ask a boy to the dance . take a stand and be your self and if it doesn't work out then don't give up!
I must ask - why would you want to get a guy you feel hates you to dance with you?
you take control ask a guy or girl or you can just try to catch someones attention