Short of murder (I don't highly recommend this LOL) there isn't much you can do because it's your husband's choice to see her, and it's his butt you should be kicking and not hers. He's a jerk and is non-caring about what he is putting you through and how you feel. Kick the slug right out that door! There are other men out there that would treat you far better and the way you should be treated. The harder we fight between the husband and the mistress the closer together it brings them.
I was married before to an abusive husband. I caught him cheating with two women at one time! Although they were not in the throws of sexual embrace and I caught them cozied up in a popular pub, nonetheless I caught them. I confronted him right there and then and when he said, "What the hell are you doing here, get home and iron" I am ashamed to say I lost it! I am 5'6" tall and 130 lbs., and I never knew I had the physical strength I did. I picked up that heavy round table he was sitting at with those two grinning idiots he had picked up and held it in the air and dumped every single glass and pitcher of beer on all of them! Even the bouncer of the pub said, "No way am I going to get in between that one!" I went home, locked the doors and refused to let him in. He had to move in with his mother (that should have told me a lot right there.) Although this wasn't my usual style of dealing with a problem I have to say, it sure felt good! Later, I filed for divorce. I've since met a wonderful man and we've been married 33 years.
Kick this guy as far as you can. Don't lower yourself by trying to get to the woman. That's what she wants! She wants you to retaliate so she can cunningly go whining to your husband and tell him how terrible you are to her. This only reinforces all his lies as to why he's left you.
NO MAN OR WOMAN IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR WHEN THEY CHEAT!
Good luck Marcy
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Wow I wish I did, but Im afraid the man I married might get mad and disappointed if I lay my hands on her, after all he has deep feelings for her and she is such a good Christian woman.
You don't. HE does. Happend to me with my boyfriend. She showed up to his house a couple of times when I was there. After the second time, (we'd been dating a year then), I asked him, "Are you seeing her?" He said, "No." I said, "Do you want to see her?" To which he said, "No." So I said, "Then make her go away." She hasn't shown up since. That was a year ago. About 4 months after that I simply asked him if he'd gotten rid of her and he said yes. Done. No muss, no fuss.
Sit her down and talk to her. File for divorce? If you don't want to be with her, make it clear.
If a married man loves another woman than his wife, he can prove it by divorcing his wife and marrying this other woman.
The other woman would be called his mistress.
ANSWER: It depends on what type of friendship they have. As long as he knows that his wife know this other woman, that will be fine. But if this married man never mention to his wife about his friendship towards the other woman, that will be a no no
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No, a man cannot commit adultery with his wife. In order to be adultery, it has to be with a woman other than your wife.
he's settling with you because the other woman did nit want him
if he feels atracted to that other person then yes he is cheating for this is not fair on his wife however if he doesn't know why he is thinking of this other woman he should seek help eather way he should talk to his wife about it
He probably still loves his wife. the fact that he has had a relationship with another woman does not mean he does not love his wife and family. That is a idea implanted in our society by religion.
Technically, Yes a Wife can do that if she is both Gay and Straight, but it is not commonly heard of.
a divorce
One was a crack head, the other was a black woman, and one being a Indian woman.
I don't think we can force anyone to look or not look at anything. Nothing is worth such tyranny and control. It is only natural for men to look at women and vice versa. Can a wife really say that she never notices any men when she opens her eyes. On the other hand, commenting on other women with a view to hurting your wife is something else. Answer: Commenting on another woman is the same as looking at another woman when you know your wife or GF notices. It's hurtful and creates an insecure relationship.