By petitioning the family court for termination of parental rights in the appropriate jurisdiction (the county where the child legally resides), but doing so will not relieve dad of his child support obligations or other parental obligations, unless the child is being adopted by another adult willing to do so.
I just found out tht my dad and step mom have custody of my son which I have not sign him over to them and my son lives with me I take care of him. What can I do?
Yes of course. Unless the custodial parent is unfit the judge would not just change it though but there is also shared custody. It's up to the court to decide.
If the original decree gave full custody to the father, then only the father can relinquish said custody. You will need to hire an attorney to figure out the legal implications required to take on such a task. But is it possible to give away custody of her without going to court? All my mom did was sign papers and send them to my dad who has not even filed them.
No.
It depends on how old are you.
No he cant he doesnt have any rights over you. if your mom has custody over you she can tho.
yes
No, if you are her guardian (you have custody) then she cannot do that until she is a legal adult.
Yes
You must return to court to petition for a modification of the custody order. You should seek the advice of an attorney who specializes in custody issues.
the judge might sighn for another date or give full custody to the parent that showed up it happened to my mom before when she didnt show up and my dad got full custody of me
You will have to go to court over it i would suggest telling your dad that you want to live with them first and then talk to some legal officers before making any decisions.