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First, does he know you're gay? If not, start there. The next step may become immediately clear. If he's really your friend, he may be freaked out, but he will deal with it. He may jump ahead of you and say something like "Do you have a thing for me?" If he does, be honest. If he doesn't, you will have to decide if he's ready to hear it from you. After you've told him you love him, he may hug you to his chest and kiss you passionately. That's the fairy tale ending, and the odds are against it. More likely, he'll stand there awkwardly and not know what to say. This is when you say something like, "It's only fair that you know. You're my best friend, and I don't want to lie to you". The ball is now in his court. He may say "thanks, but I'm straight", or he may avoid answering you, and become distant, and the friendship may die. Whatever happens, your relationship will have been changed forever -- that's the risk.
The really tricky thing here is that we all tend to make decisions a little too quickly, when it would be better to just stop and think for a while. Good luck!
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∙ 15y ago
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∙ 12y agoyou shouldn't come out and say that because the words i love you freak most guys out. believe me i am a guy and know firsthand. you should first talk to him and get to know him then let him know you like him. don't make a mistake and come out and say i love you because like i said most guys want to run when a girl tells them that. you could simply be infatuated with him and not truly in love. don't make any mistakes when it comes to serious things like that. try to date first, don't come out and say i love you. let him do it first. he will if you give the relationship time. alot of time. have patience, it could take many months. don't come out with i love you, even if you get into a serious relationship let him say it first.
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∙ 15y agoWell u go with your heart, let your actions tell him how u feel! And make sure ur Best Friend too, don't leave them out x
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∙ 13y agoit would be ok if they are your best friend. if not then give them hints like say that she/he could play with them
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∙ 15y agotell your best friend to tell him.
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just be honest with your feelings or tell your friend first and hear what she has to say
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tell your best friend but tell her not to tell her bro.
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tell your best friend if they don't mind go for him
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It's not best to tell him after a while so be straight and tell him
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Tell your friend thst you like their brother
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Tell your boyfriend that they love you then hopefully they will step down a step on the love scale.
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Tell his friends in private that you are into someone else. Then tell them that the two of you are close but not in a romantic way. Also tell them that close love is just as good.
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Tell him you are not interested in him, and if you were, you would not see him, out of love and loyalty for your best friend.
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Tell her "I love you"
