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How do you make a narcassist be kind?
You can't. If a person is a true narcissist, you can't 'make' them behave otherwise. Narcissism can only be modified by a professional and then only if the narcissist is motivated to try.
Is there such a thing as passive-aggressive narcissist?
Passive-aggressive behavior is one of the narcissists' favorite tools.
Can a malignant narcissist love his child?
A malignant narcissist cannot magically shed his damaging patterns of behavior to bestow unconditional love upon his child. A good parent is one who places his child's needs above his own. A narcissist always places their needs first.
Does the narcissist deliberately set out to emotionally destroy his victim or is it just a by-product of their behavior?
Depends if he is also a sadist or not.
Are there ways to cope with a narcissist?
Yes, depending on the group (social) dynamic. A narcissist's ego must be stroked. Your opinion is meaningless to them. If you feel they have value worth the cost, you will stroke it. The behavior is destructive; keep a safe distance.
What kind of pleasure does the narcissist feel with his own behavior?
Since the narcissist has built his existence on a completely false view of himself he feels extreme satisfaction with his performance and basks in the adoration of others who may be fooled by his behavior. On a good day the narcissist is on top of the world, continuously buoyed up by his feeling of superiority. On a bad day, reality may break through and he is bothered by his feelings of inadequacy.Since the narcissist has built his existence on a completely false view of himself he feels extreme satisfaction with his performance and basks in the adoration of others who may be fooled by his behavior. On a good day the narcissist is on top of the world, continuously buoyed up by his feeling of superiority. On a bad day, reality may break through and he is bothered by his feelings of inadequacy.Since the narcissist has built his existence on a completely false view of himself he feels extreme satisfaction with his performance and basks in the adoration of others who may be fooled by his behavior. On a good day the narcissist is on top of the world, continuously buoyed up by his feeling of superiority. On a bad day, reality may break through and he is bothered by his feelings of inadequacy.Since the narcissist has built his existence on a completely false view of himself he feels extreme satisfaction with his performance and basks in the adoration of others who may be fooled by his behavior. On a good day the narcissist is on top of the world, continuously buoyed up by his feeling of superiority. On a bad day, reality may break through and he is bothered by his feelings of inadequacy.
Can a Narcissist be created from being reared in the home of two alcoholic parents?
Yes, especially if that is how their brain "wired" itself to deal with that sort of behavior.
Does a passive aggressive personality respond to shut you up or not hear you?
Passive Aggressive Behavior is part of being a Destructive Narcissist. They could do both.
Why did Lauri Lusby have an affair with a married man at her church for 8 years?
Because she is a malignant narcissist and refuses to accept responsibility for her hurtful behavior...
What type narcissist stays with another abusive narcissist?
A borderline. Essentially a more emotionally reactive narcissist.
Would a narcissist ex-boyfriend talk about his ex to mutual friends in a way that makes it appear he is decent and moral when in reality he is trying to just take another dig at her?
OF COURSE! Mines is doing that now. They'd do anything to make themselves look like the saint. That is classic narcissist behavior. You have to be pretty careful in knowing who your friends are and who the narcissist has gotten to. I hate to say it but in order to figure out what the narcissist is up to, you have to think like a narcissist. Of course that makes you look bad, like you ARE a narcissist (you've probably picked up some narcissist behaviors being around one anyway) so BE CAREFUL. My narcissist called this game "Ex Caliber" after King Arthur's sword. He said people who were pure and of good intentions could slip past his defenses. Translation: You better make yourself look better than the narcissist and dodge the mud he's flinging if you want to keep your friends!
If you go back to a narcissist how will they be able to idealise you and devalue again more so you have studied their behavior and have read about narcissism?
NO! it gets worse! get away - STAY AWAY!!
