How can you arouse your male partner?

Answer 1

Simple, play dirty with him.

Turn into a "Bad Girl" and start telling him naughty things, of course the key is to get him to RELAX and enjoy it at the same time.

You don't wanna go all rough on him and accidentally hurt him and turn everything into an akward moment.

I would suggest that you start off slowly, try by sitting next to him first and if he does kiss you first that's something you can scratch off the list, if he doesn't start you'll get a head start of the plan by working your way down on him.

Start by kissing his neck (if he doesn't kiss you first and you two aren't making out). Give him little kissies and whisper naughty things to him (this doesn't really have to lead to sex if you don't want to, you can just do it to see their reaction or something like that, the point is- it doesn't HAVE to!).

After that, run your hand down to his chest and lay your head on it (you can choose to sit down next to him if you want or you can sit on top of one of his legs as LONG as it doesn't make him uncomfortable!) Listen to his heart beat, if it's racing- it's working. If it's calm, it's okay, don't get dissapointed. Here's what to do next!

Kiss his chest (still on top of the shirt), then work your way up to his lips once again. Get your lips close to his just enough to tempt him to kiss you, when he's about to kiss you, move back a little and say something naughty (I would shake my finger and make a cute face saying "no, no~" in a naughty way, then say "I'm barley getting started, we're not even through").

Once you do that with the lips, move down to his neck and make sure he relaxes. Try licking his neck once in a while but do all of this SLOWLY so that he's relaxed, if you go fast he won't enjoy it and will certainly be able to predict what's next, if you do this slowly then he won't know what to expect because he'll be too busy thinking "holy, I didn't know you were like this".

So, SLOWLY work your way down as you are kissing him (it's okay to be afraid because yes, I know some teenagers are reading this). Start making out with him, make sure you do noises that sound pleasurable (low moans). This will make your male partner start having to control himself a little if he's capable. As you're making out, make sure you're on top! (This doesn't mean you have to be laying down, you can be sitting on top of him or so). Run your right or left hand down to his chest (SLOWLY) and down to his tigh.

This will make him twitch right away and wonder what to do next. (BUT, if you are NOT Looking forward to have THINGS and just to arouse him, then let him know before you two end up having it).

Hope it helps, oh, one more thing... Make sure that when you speak naughty you ACTUALLY speak it. It's the way you say it, more than the things you say!