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How To Be Fun To Be Around

Believing that you're fun does not work.

If you lack the skills to be fun then you need to learn them. Fantasizing that you are fun will not make it so. Think of people you know that are maybe not so fun and now look at what they do. What would you like to see them do?

Smile and laugh.

Laughter is important. Act like you always love life and don't have any problems that you have to face. This brightens the way people think of you.

Make eye contact.

Make people feel like they have all of your attention by looking right into their eyes. This will make them believe that what they are saying to you something really interesting and that you are only giving them the attention that they rightfully deserve.

Be spontaneous.

Have fun with things, be lighthearted and generous. Go to new places, do new things. People will will want to do something fun with you and will want to be around you especially if you are buying!

Be active.

Maybe do a "happy dance" when something good happens or twirl around to cheer someone up. People love a fool to Smile and Laugh at so this really does work!

Be curious.

Being curious because you never know what's going to happen and besides, it will really improve your character. Go someplace new or walk to the nearest local hangout spot. You never know who you'll meet. Also, knowing what you are doing later (in case someone should ask) will give you something to tell people and prevent the assumption that you are a boring loser with no life. If people think you are boring then often they will hate you for it.

Be sociable and friendly.

In order to be fun to be with. be friendly to everyone, even mean people. Once you start meeting new people, be sure to cheer them up when they're down, learn new jokes to tell, invite them to adult parties, you know. Make them like you by being extra friendly and giving. Learn about them but be mysterious about you.

Don't act 'Way Out There'!

People thinking you are weird, strange, etc., will hurt you if you're trying to meet new people. You don't want anyone labeling you at this point. Rock the Wild You once you get to know their limitations and know better if they can handle it.

Care about yourself.

Remember that there are two kinds of people: skinny and fat. Skinny people think fat people don't care enough about themselves to lose weight. So even if you feel good curvy, you must do whatever it takes to be skinny. Be determined to get fit asap or you will be an outcast no matter what you do.

Listen.

Good impressions are crucial. Fun people never do all the talking so when it comes to conversations don't try to get a word in edgewise. Pretend to start a conversation about a topic/subject you think the person likes to talk about, then back off and just listen. Do not debate them as that would be a big no no! Keep it simple and insert caring words when needed like 'Oh, cool' or 'How does that make you feel?'

Finally, if the person you wish to befriend is clearly wealthy you can go ahead and ignore them completely and they will more than likely think you are just fabulous for it.

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