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How can you deal with and get past your husband having an affair when you him and the other woman all work at the same place and you have to see her every day?
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∙ 15y ago
* This is indeed a difficult situation and there are few options for you. The first thing you should do is sit down and communicate how you feel to your husband even though (hopefully) the affair is over. Unfortunately, with the unemployment rate peaking it's not as easy to find another job unless one has a degree and even then it's questionable. Sit down with your mate and see if there is a way he can change to either another branch of the company or possibly look for other work. It would have to be him changing jobs and not you because if you left the company then you would never trust him working near this other woman. When on mate has broken the ultimate trust of loyalty by cheating it is difficult to earn that trust back from the mate that was hurt. If he can't change jobs and you can't trust him you may have to consider ending the relationship.
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Having an affair and want the other man?
Your detail is not really complete, and it will be hard to help you. So I will do my best. If you are the wife and you have this problem your life will be a mess more than you know. Did your husband knows what going on behind his back, if he is the two of you are heading to a divorce court. But if your husband don't know and you fell in love with the man that you're having an affair it will not be fair to your husband. My question to you is, are you sure that you want the other man, or it's all about lust?..
Is it wise to tell you husband you are having affair?
The question shouldn't be 'is it wise to tell my husband I'm having an affair,' but why are you having the affair? If life is too intolerable for you living with your husband then have the guts to face it and not hurt his feelings by being irresponsible and selfish by hurting his feelings because one day he will find out. Once you have broken that bond of trust then in many cases there is no salvaging the marriage. Put yourself in his shoes. You are having an affair because something is missing in your marriage and neither you or your husband appear to have made much of an effort to communicate better or get marriage counseling. Wives or husbands can always go for separation and strike out on their own to clear their minds as to what they really do want in life. By having this affair you are not going to fill the hole you feel in yourself and it could lead to other affairs. It is up to you to decide if you continue the affair behind your husband's back, but if you do be prepared for the reality you could be losing someone very precious in your life.
Best friend having an affair with a friends' husband?
Best friend having an affair with friends husband? I recently found out that my best friend is having an affair with the husband of a couple my husband and I hang out with often. It seems, the affair has been going on for several months (almost a year) but I found out about it a few weeks ago. My best friend was sworn to secrecy by him and was made to promise that she would never tell me but one night, while I was at her place having drinks, she had a few too many and spilled the beans. Problem is, my husband and I are pretty close to the married couple and often times we have dinner, travel, or hang out at each other's homes. I am at a loss as to how to handle this. What would you do in my situation? Now that I know, I feel guilty although I had nothing to do with them hooking up.
Who's problem is it to resolve if the other woman is still contacting the wife and the married man she had the affair with?
Your husband had a tongue in his head and he could have said 'no' to having an affair with the other woman or, he started the affair so it is up to the husband to resolve the problem with the mistress contacting the wife and himself. If the husband does not stop the ex mistress from phoning his wife and himself then the wife should at least apply for a separation because he may still be seeing the mistress.
What are the signs if your husband is having an affair and you both are far from each other?
Their are various signs that you can notice. Major one is the decrease in the time he used to spend with you contacting you.
Your husband kissed someone all night and said he was not cheating?
find out who he kissed and if it gets to u kick him to the curb ANSWER: Yes it is. What you husband is doing, is cheating in the heart. Making out with this woman can justify as cheating. They haven't reach the second level of their relationship. Married men will always say they weren't having an affairs, because only kissing. Men thinks that having intercourse with the other woman is affair. My husband included. And the man I married is well educated, so for him to tell me that he wasn't cheating or having affair is lame. In short he is having an affair because he is kissing a woman who is not his wife..
Your husband had an affair and the other person is stalking you?
Call the cops or you can just fight her.
Is it possible for a husband to have a sexual affair with no feelings toward the other woman?
Yes.
What is the name of the man other than her husband with whom a married woman has a continuing sexual relationship?
That would be the man she is having an affair with but I'm not really sure what you could call him
Your husband of 25 years has been having an affair for 2 years He has been placing money into the woman bank account Can you go after the other women if you live in TN?
yes.....
How can you tell that your husband have affair with other woman?
Ask the other woman if she says no then he is if she says yes then she is also. Why dont you just dump your husband and then you will know.
If your husband stops bathing at home receives gifts starts chewing gum is not himself says he has lost interest and ask you questions about having sex with other people is he having an affair?
It sounds as though you are becoming the other woman despite being the wife.
