How can you get your boyfriend back?

Answer 1

if you are broken up with your boyfriend the first thing you need to do is to sort out your feelings do you truly love him or are you clinging to something that isn't right for you. go over in your mind from start to finish memories of all the bad and the good. does the bad outweigh the good? was there respect and trust between both of you? is he on drugs or an alcoholic, is he abusive?, does he concider your feelings above his own, is he a liar, has he cheated on you? there are many questions you need to cover in your own heart before you decide you really want him back and make sure it's what he really wants. if all you had were normal quarrels were able to forgive and forget then i'd say yes if you love him go for it but don't chase after him. communicate with him from time to time remain friends because if you don't that door is open for other women to take your place. he may even date others while you're apart so should you don't sit around waiting for him. or if you decide going through that whole scene again isn't worth it find a hobby besides work get a pet a small yorkie or a cat to keep you company get on the internet to find some form of online counseling that may help you through this sad emotional time in your life right now. don't allow it to take you into a state of depression. that's the worse thing you can do. don't stalk him stay away from his place his friends, and especialy the places you use to go together. that can only deepen the hurt you're going through because it leaves the wound open and you can't give yourself the healing you deserve if you continue to pick at the wound. fight to get him back in the normal ways. you can find out a lot by doing research on the internet and contacting a counseler on the internet sometimes if their legitimate make sure you check them out can be a great help. there are penpal websites you can join to find a friend online not a man but friend to talk to email and pour your heart out to them it helps to get all this off your chest so you can heal and talking is the begining of the healing process. remember God is the great physician he made you head to toe in and out if anybody's going to understand you he will. prayer is the best tool you could ever find and if Gods path is for the two of you to reunite then it'll happen if it doesn't then there's something better out there for you. God bless and be happy