See information in the related link below, which provides information on leaving an abuser, as well as how to protect yourself and your children.
Impossible to answer without knowing who "HE" is.
blindfold. quickly then leave
If you mean legally, then I would imagine it would depend on if you had children with the drug using spouse. If you do, it would be best to notify the police or contact an attorney. You have a responsibility to keep the children safe, and keeping them in a place where one parent is using drugs is not safe. If not, then all you would have to do is pack and leave.
Who cares. They sure don't.
If the grandmother has custody
The victim has no power or they would not be abused. The abuser always has the control. Children and the elderly are victimized often in society as well as men and women. The abuser will start out by abusing psychologically and 'put down' their victim until they leave their victim confused with no self confidence. The abuser may threaten to leave their victim (this is terrifying to the elderly); leave the wife and take the children; talk of killing the victim or anyone that is close to them. The abuser often isolates their victim so their victim has no family or friends to turn too and they have to suffer in silence and depend on their abuser.
Not likely. Generally the MO is they do everything but leave & the abused must be the one who escapes.
Call the cops and tell them to come and get him/her. Tell them what they are doing to you.
Leave permanently, no. That would violate the visitation order. To move would require his and the courts consent.
the victim or the abuser? emotional abuse cuts deeper than physical abuse. it has to do with manipulation. though emotional abuse and physical abuse ususally go hand in hand.
Because she thought that Percy is dead and because she did not want Percy to leave her she kissed him not knowing the he is still alive.
He will leave & you deserve it. YOU CHEATED ON HIM. It's not fair to him to be cheated on without knowing & it's unfair for you to leave HIM because YOU cheated. Cheating, if you want to cheat then face the consequences.