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You can't. In the world of a narcissist, they are right and everyone else is wrong. So no matter what you say or do, it will never register in their brain because in their eyes, they're god and know so much more than you ever will. They have no empathy or awareness that you are a separate human being with a life, goals and dreams of your own. Sadly, anyone who has been involved with a narcissist is just an extension to them, used as a screwdriver would be to open a paint can, and discarded as useless when it bends under unceasing pressure. To be a narcissistic extension is to be viewed and treated as such.

The only way you can make peace with that is to know that it wasn't your fault, because a narcissist is a predator, an empty shell that targeted you for the very things that make you a worthwhile human being and that they themselves instinctively know they lack. That's why you were a target and became an extension of them in the first place. The way to find peace is to get them out of your life as soon as possible, reconnect with you and rediscover who you are as a human being, and realise that there are some people who look human and masquarede as such, but only qualify as human because they are in a human body that lacks a soul.

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