I'm not quite sure if you mean family members, friends or the abuser that you are trying to make see that it's the abuser's attitude that creates conflict. All you need to know is NO ONE has the right to abuse you! Also, you have no right to abuse anyone. To fight back at an abuser is dangerous and it leads nowhere. If you have had enough of the abuse it's time to seek help to get out of the environment you are in and never mind what others think or understand. My rule of thumb on this "Until you have walked a mile in that person's shoes (the victim) no one has a right to comment negatively." YOU know what goes on behind closed doors. There is no need to try and convince anyone! YOU CAN NOT CHANGE YOUR ABUSER! Abusers are usually the product of the environment they either grew up in, or an environment they created for themselves. Still, this is no excuse because they know they abuse and therefore, they should have gotten psychological help for themselves, but seldom do. Abusers are sneaky, vicious, under-mining and when they abuse their mate, a family member, children or the elderly it is suppose to make them feel superior, but only for a brief moment and thus, the abuse continues. Abuser's only know one word "control!" They can't control society or the world around them, BUT, they can control who is in their home. Abusers are actually weak and fear society as a whole. They often feel they have not been treated fairly or they should have all the things others in society have. They may resent the fact they weren't lucky enough to make good money or brought up in a family with money. They see themselves as much more intelligent than the average person and therefore, they are angry that they aren't rewarded for their intelligence. They feel "they missed the boat." If the abuser was abused by his/her parents then they grew up with deep-rooted anger. Children can't fight back against their abusers so they suppress their anger until they are old enough to leave home and the anger spills out and the abuse is a chain reaction. Other abusers could be in a job where they work hard and never seem to get anywhere in the company and instead of changing companies they internalize things and become angry. Some abusers are simply just mean to the bone and have no real reason for their behavior. Abuse is in every culture, race, rich or poor and the famous. Don't hang around your abuser and think they will change. It's a road you are going to have to travel and many women make the transition of getting help from their local "Abused Women's Center" and getting help fighting the system against their abuser and end up leading normal and healthy lives. Many formerly abused women end up meeting and marrying a wonderful man and leading a very normal lifestyle. Your are stronger than you think hon. Good luck Marcy
OF COURSE.. Abusers have issues with control. God forbid you MIGHT have a personal conflict or choose not to do something on his list. Typical reactions include, screaming, tantrums, guilt trips, anger, resentment, emotional punishment, abandonment, and the best is when they hold a grudge and refuse to do something with you the very next time you have an outing. These red flags show up early in abusive relationships, and usually, the kind hearted victim tries to be understanding and flexible at first, but after too long, if you ignore your gut, he'll make you believe you can never say no. Once you're out of the insanity, you'll realize, hopefully not too late, that you are allowed to say, "I'm sorry, you're just going to have to deal with the fact that I'm not going!" Go ahead! Speak up!
John Locke
No she didn't she had an abusive alcholic father. And her mom waen't in the best condition.
the right of the citizens to be free of abusive non-representative governments.
No - it is not abnormal to forget minor events from the past. Actually it is quite normal to remember and unfortunately sometimes these past memories can be traumatizing for some.
Abusive.
She is probably trying to be flirty. If she is actually afraid to talk to him then maybe he is abusive or she is hiding something from him.
If you're dad is abusive, you should not stick around and get hurt by him. If you're 18, why would he be able to call the police if you leave? And if he did, surely the police would take your side and actually help you get out.
Theres runaway love about a girl who has a abusive step father THERE IS ALso dear mr jesus and theres this one by mecheal something
He's wanting to have more control. It's a manipulation tactic, trying to control the coach. That's what abusive men do.
Explain your problem to a school counsellor or your parents. Try to get assigned to a different class by saying you have a unresolvable personality conflict with the teacher or something. Try not to get too personal if you can avoid it. If there's something else going on, like he is really abusive or harming kids, you should get evidence and tell the authorities.
Yes, clearly the abusive family member wouldn't willingly attend something intended to correct his/her abusive behavior I they are indeed abusive.
A high emotional intelligence is required for effectively dealing with abusive customers. The capacity to identify and react to others' emotions while controlling ones own is essential while managing a high tension conflict.
The boss was fired for his abusive behavior towards his employees.
In real life: no. For a work of fiction: yes, but only to cause conflict which has to be resolved.
The external conflict in "The Lottery Rose" revolves around Georgie's abusive home life and his struggle to escape the physical and emotional abuse inflicted upon him by his mother and her boyfriend. This conflict drives the plot as Georgie navigates his harsh reality and seeks refuge in the power of imagination and friendship to overcome his circumstances.
differing humor is when someone tels a joke and the person who is listering finds it abusive or racist or something:)