How can you satisfy yourself sexually using your hand?

Answer 1

Here are some ways you can satisfy yourself sexually using your hand:

guys:

When a guy gets an erection, he can grab the shaft of his penis

and move his hand up and down, which causes constant pressure changes to the tip, which in turn causes a pleasant sensation resulting in orgasm. If he's circumcised, it's more difficult: he'll have to use vaseline or something like that to reduce friction to the tip.

girls:

The most common thing to do is to gently stroke around the clitoris. Circular motions are usually best. If you are a guy doing this to your partner, a light touch is really best. But experiment until you find what works best for you. Stroking the clitoris directly can be irritating if done too forcefully or too long as it is very sensitive. A nice lubricant like astroglide or some of the new KY's can help. Another area that can be stimulated is the lambia. This can be done by gently stroking along the length of both the inner and outer lambia. Directly stimulating the vagina by inserting two fingers sometimes works alone but often needs to be combined with the stimulation of the clitoral area or the lambia or both.

When stimulating the vagina, a simple in and out motion is not always the trick. Sometimes a rapid motion is what is called for, sometimes it's better to take your time. You can also vary the rhythm and the direction. Instead of straight in and out, vary the angle of penetration. The bottom line is to play around and do what feels right and good to you.