How can you seem less pathetic being alone in a small school when everybody knows who you are and recently began hating you?

Answer 1

Find out why they hate you. Prove them wrong. Don't be scared to be yourself.

Don't feel pathetic. Go up to the people hating you and ask them why they hate you? If you know why, then tell them that's a stupid reason for hating someone and that you don't deserve to be treated this way. If they make an obnoxious comment, tell them that you're really hurt by that. It takes real bravery to tell the truth, and it isn't letting them in on your personal feelings or giving in at all. Does it really matter whether or not they know that you are hurting? All that matters is whether you are hurting at all. Tell them that hate is wrong. All this will set them off kilter and they'll probably stop hating on you and just ignore you. Say something like, I forgive you but that was a really mean thing to say. AND! This is the big key: If you're not already being nice, try to be nice to everyone, in a non-sucking-up way. If you're already being nice to everyone, try being mean to the second-loneliest. Then, when he/she looks up to you, be friends with them. this way you can get to know them. otherwise, they would always refuse to talk to you and thus not get to know you. IMPORTANT: If ppl don't have fun around you, it's because you're depressed. Pretend nothing matters, convince yourself that life is good. Do what it takes to be less depressed. try to be friends with ppl, don't go around being moody and expecting them to be your friend. Don't Dwell on it. Be friends with someone else who is lonely if you have to-- do what it takes to have fun, alone or not. This is the only thing to do!!!

Answer 2

Focus on yourself and your own interests. Engage in activities or hobbies that make you happy and build your self-confidence. Surround yourself with positive and supportive friends, both within and outside of school, who appreciate and value you for who you are. Remember that other people's opinions do not define your worth or happiness.