How do you tell if a guy is interested in you or just being friendly?

Answer 1

If you want to know if a guy likes you just simply ask him if he does or have a friend ask. That is the only way to do it trust me I know.

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Look for clues on his behavior... does he keep staring at you? ( THAT'S A GOOD ONE), does he treat you diferently (in a good way)? Is he nervous around you? Foes he leave you alone when his friends are around or does he introduce you to than?

Answer 2

This can be a hard one to figure out, so the best thing to do is make it more personal by going out for coffee and then get the courage to ask if he'd like to go to a movie. Take it slow and easy and let nature take it's course. Good luck Marcy

Answer 3

This is a hard one because people that start out as friends can often fall in love. If in doubt the best thing to do is go out on a date together. Say something to him like, "You know, we've been friends for awhile, and wouldn't it be fun to go out on a real date and see where it goes from there?" Smile when you say it and he'll either agree or tell you that he prefers being friends and you'll have your answer. Although his answer may hurt your feelings at least you can remain the good friends you've always had and move on in life and soon you will find someone else to love. Good luck Marcy

Answer 4

A guy that is friendly will just treat you like in a down way but a guy that actually likes you he will tell you or he may call you, text message you and even in school he will walk you to class..He may go to your house and talk to you and he will just talk about you that you are beautiful and things like that you know sweet things about you that you may like about him :) .Oh lol almost forgot a guy that actually like you he will like you the way you are and that the way it goes....

Answer 5

If a guy touches you less then most girls then your in the friend zone and escape is unlikly. If he is touching you more then most or about the same then he is most likly intrested. If he ever sacrafices time with his own guy friends if he oftnly spends with them to be with you then he is very intrested. Your body is key if he wants you he will touch you.

Answer 6

How to tell if he wants to be more than friendsIf he/she is acting flirty around you and is holding your hand its a good chance she/he likes you. Also if you guys hang out alone or stuff and he/she brings up the subject dating he/she probably wants to date you. If both of you guys are best friends then you might be stuck in the friend zone so try and make a move before its too late. Ways to Make a moveAct flirty around him/her and talk to them about stuff they like and when you start going out Talk about stuff you guys both like. talk about your opinions little by little until you both communicate very well and are deep in love. And also don't agree with them on everything or you will get annoying and they won't like you at all anymore. If you don't agree on something try and say that you don't agree with him in nice way but first try to change the subject.

Answer 7

Ask him.

Obviously, a great way to find out.

I'm currently stuck in your situation, what with the whole, him being a total gentleman thing.

My guy has turned his facebook profile picture into one with me and him hugging. He once took his over-shirt off for me and gave it to me when I told him I was cold. And he's just always nice to me (i.e. stays at least five extra seconds to talk to me even when he's late to class)

But he'll also send mixed signals. I recently introduced him to a girl I'd also recently met and now he texts her constantly and hides his phone from me. Snickers at their conversations, and now everyone is telling him how they're going to get married even though they barely know each other (different schools). Naturally, you'd be confused.

In all honesty, you just have to evaluate him and his character. Is he that nice to everyone? If he is, you're screwed, just like I am.

However, if he's being extra nice to you, you might be lucky. I'm not going to give you a for sure answer, seeing as how I don't know you and I'm no mind reader, but there are generally clues.

You can move on. Don't limit yourself to obsessing over this guy, even if he's beyond nice to you. Open up your options and don't let yourself obsess over him- it'll freak him out. So be friends, but make sure to flirt some, let him know that if he wanted to, that door is wide open.

And if you figure it out, let me know.

Answer 8

You don't. If you've only recently met him he probably doesn't know himself whether he's really interested; he's just trying to find out. Just be yourself and see how things go.