Signs of abuse:
Scrach marks, welts, bruising, torn clothing, the victim has gone into a shell and isn't their "old self."
Remember, some of the signs I just gave you could be from playing sports as well and there is always the possibility it is not his girlfriend abusing him, but other guys. Young men can get into fights and sometimes get into situations they shouldn't be in.
Have that talk with him as soon as possible.
i think that is he is a but unhappy at home and things have a talk to him but also have a talk with his girlfriend the answer at first might be ' i have heart him at all'' but have a talk with your son HEART TO HEART it must be very personal though, you shouldn't do thing to quickly, ask him if he is ok and ask him about his personal life a phew minutes later :)
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Male abuse is rare, but only because their ego keeps them quiet. Ask! But you must have long before typing here. If you do not have a good relationship with your son that might be part of the answer. Sit down and explain that you had an abusive situation (make it up if you have to), and that it was much better once you talked about it. If something is happening they might open up, if not, go about your business. Do not break up the couple (without physical proof) unless you want hatred from both. You need to specify what you suspect to get a better answer, sorry?!
If he comes up with bruises, and when you tell him he's late for his date, he winces and goes, "No thank you." And runs out of the house screaming for dear mercy. OR. he comes home smelling like perfume and is covered in lipstick and is breathing hard, then he is being abused.
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s are worthless without knowing the problem. Physical or mental? Signs shown? Odd comments? Odd actions, reactions? Explain, then we can help. One way is that this act will affect his behavior both at home and in public.
if your son starts to touch himself in a fashion that is inappropriate as the mother is jealous, that is a huge warning that her gf is abusing him
If you seriously think that someone is abusing their kids, report it. But before you do, remember this is a pretty serious offense to accuse someone of. You can report this without giving your name, that would probably be the best way to go. Or at least not having your name released to anyone, but authorities.
Victims of abuse - children and adult alike - develop a set of reactions, collectively known as "trauma".
These reactions are described here:
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/trauma.html
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/torturepsychology.html
Change in behavior is definitely a big factor. probably in emotion too. look for things in a person to really scan that you feel have changed.
Also, bruises or cuts may be a sign of abuse, followed by the actions above.
And , if you see they ALWAYS where long pants , long sleeves , or if they rarely get a hair cut , because they could have some sort of bruises on their neck .
The main factor , is if they are shy . If they come to school , or wherever always with a dull expression on their face , then they are probably scared of people .
Even , if they flinch easily .
If you are being abused you should tell someone of authority like a teacher, police officer, or doctor. You should never be subjected to abuse.
if you are being abused there is no need to suffer any more. Just go to your teachers in school, friendly neighbors or someone you can trust and ask them for help. Hopefully they will help you!
When they are 18. If a minor is abused they have to tell someone or call the police or CPS and they will make sure they get with a relative or with a foster family.
if you or someone else in your family is being abused tell a teacher, tell a friend, call the local police.
If someone's dog was abused I think they would tell the humane society or animal control and find out who abused them.
Report it right away.
Animal and child abuse are issues to be taken very seriously. They both have different forms of abuse such as neglect and physical abuse. Both are happening all around the world, and many are trying to help those being abused. Please tell someone you trust if you know someone who is being abused or you are being abused.
I dont know your situation. However, if you are the child being abused, you should tell someone about it. If there is a teacher you trust or like, he or she will be able to help stop the abuse. Explain to them in person what is going on and they will be able to help you. Hope this helps.
The child may tell you something that you are obligated or need to tell someone, like if someone being abused. If you promise to keep the secret, you will break the child's trust, not only trust between you and the child, but it will teach the child not to trust others, too.
The law varies from state to state but if you are abused you can tell a social worker and they can help you.
If your a kid you should tell a concelear at school .
Protecting individuals from abuse means you protect someone from being physically abused, verbally abused, emotionally abused or sexually abused. These forms of abuse are more vulnerable towards children. A social workers job is to stop children from being abused in any kind of way and protect them from coming into contact with that person that is abusing them.