How can you turn from a bootycall into his girlfriend?

Answer 1

Stop sleeping with him and do not contact him. If he contacts you, do not respond immediately and ignore him as much as you can. Only hang out with him without alcohol and go on dates such as Bowling, shooting pool, movies & dinner, etc. Do not ever hang out getting drinks in a bar although you tell yourself that you'll only have one or two, this rarely works out, you both will end up drunk and you'll end up sleeping with him again. Do not act like his girlfriend when you hang out and try not to be too excited or happy when you guys do go out on dates.

In my opinion, I don't think it would work to tell him you want more than the no strings attached sleeping with each other and want a true relationship. Thinking that he would not want to lose you and will turn you into his girlfriend. You're wrong, I believe that he will only run away and find another booty call since he got scared of the commitment with you. Just act aloof when you spend time together but sexy, funny, and intelligent and attractive! Meaning, don't give him attention, but look the best you can and act like he's lucky to be with you in the first place not vice versa.

If this doesn't work out, just ignore him and move on. Maybe if he does drunk text you, tell him not to ever to do that to you again. If he wants to see or talk to you, it would have to be when he's sober, not just some last resort to get some. Be strong, ladies, been there, done that, believe me. Guys only have the power if you let it, but we do have it and we should use it!