My ex N made me feel like I was the hottest girl in the world. He was all over me most of the time. I never would have thought he would do me like he did. He treated me like dirt when we were done. I am still reeling from how he treated me.
Extremely!
My ex treated me like a queen. Showered me with praise. I had surgery she even spent the night with me in hospital. I was overwhelmed by the attention and adoration especially since my last relationship was the opposite. She catered to me. My ex N lived by herself in the country. She tried anything and everything to get me to move there. It was a long distance relationship even though we saw each other every weekend, holidays, about as much as anyone dating would. We got engaged, exchanged rings. She even made me her beneficiary which I was reluctant to do but she pushed it so after a few weeks I agreed. Is that far enough? Then when I didn't move fast enough she dumped me but only after she spent months on line looking for a new supply and found it.
The whole time she's telling me she loves me and wants to marry me she's online chasing others. WE only dated 7 months mind you. And she said things were changing fast enough and I should have moved after 3-4 months. Problem really was that I was reluctant because her mask had come off a few times and she knew I was on to her. Her last tantrum was way overboard and drug other friends of mine into it so she showed herself to others which totally humiliated herself this was the beginning of the end.
An introvert is turned inward and away from the world as a defence against abandonment and/or rejection.A narcissist is turned inward and away from the world also as a defence, but additionally, turned towards the love-object of the self.ADDITIONALLY:An introvert possesses empathy as any rational human being; a narcissist has no empathy and no capacity for developing empathy. A narcissist cannot experience compassion for another human being. A narcissist intellectually understands that empathy and/or compassion are true emotions that human beings experience and they do realize that these emotions do exist. A narcissistic person can never truly experience the emotions themselves.Example: A virgin intellectually knows (due to media and others personal testimonies etc.) that a sexual experience would more than likely be a gratifying one; However, the virgin cannot "know" how sex "feels" until they actually experience a sexual interaction themselves.Likewise, the narcissist is aware that the emotions empathy and compassion exist (due to media and others personal testimonies etc.) but they will NEVER know what it feels like to have these emotions. They lack the hardware necessary for these emotions to become realities for them. It is sad, really.
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In my personal opinion(from experience unfortunately),narcissists equate compassion with weakness. Compassion is an enigma to a narcissist. They do feed on it however. They will push your boundries as far and as thin as you let them. They may look like adults but they are severely emotionally immature and care only for themselves.Would you date/work for/befriend "Chucky"?
No, not according to my personal experience. I have aspergers, by the way, and know several people with it.
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In my personal experience being married to one for 17 years, the worst part, is that the victims involved, are often clueless as to the abuse that is taking place. The abuse cycle is often very subtle, while you are living it, but glaring once you are removed from the situation. The narcissist uses guilt followed by appreciation peppered with manipulation, lies, fear, and cruelty. When a narcissist seems content and happy with you, following an incident, make no mistake.... they are pleased with themselves that they have tricked you once again.
Una experiencia personal.
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Helen is usually portrayed as vain and egotistical, a complete narcissist who sacrificed everything for personal happiness with Paris.
Narcissists take criticism as personal attack on themselves and their world. they will start to see the criticisor as an enemy, someone opposing them.
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