How could she leave me after I've been good to her?

Answer 1

There are any number of ways to answer this. None are going to be of much relief to you.

But, here we go:

• She may just have been using you for immediate gratification, and once your purpose had been served, she just kicked you to the curb and moved on.
• You may have just been a passing fancy. While her feelings toward you may have been genuine in the beginning, they changed with time.
• She may be a narcissistic, and you just no longer satisfy her need to pump up her ego.
• She saw greener grass on the other side of the fence. That is she caught sight of someone else who she believe she can get more from than you.
• Like many young people, she may not know what she wants and was simply "trying you on for size."
• She may have perceived you attention as clinginess or neediness, and was scared off by your attention.
• She may believe that your "goodness" to her was an attempt to control her. Very few people like to be controlled by others.

This is not a comprehensive list by any stretch of the imagination, and many of these may seem similar. The thing is, as difficult as it may seem now, you are likely better off. Review what has happened here, and analyze it for what it is. Only you can answer the question after all, you and she that is. If all else fails, and you are not able to figure it out, ask her. Just do it by text or email.

A parting word:

While it is difficult now, break-ups are never easy, it will get easier. this is not to say something ridiculous like, "Time heals all wounds." Time heals nothing. All time does is put chronological landscape between you and the experience that caused you pain, and that gives you an opportunity to put it into perspective. The sooner you get started on that, the further ahead of the game you will get.