How do I please a guy who likes to be dominated?

Answer 1

Does he jump at a chance to please you whether it is a request for more coffee or in bed?

Does he rub your feet or draw you a bubble bath at the mere hint?

The first time my GF had me give her a FULL BODY massage I got very hot by the end of an hour. She rolled over smiled, gave me a pat on the butt, and said, "now, go to sleep". I nearly died!!! I began to touch her and she slapped my hand. When I started to touch myself.....Again the slap. I was getting nowhere that nite and that's just what she wanted to test.

The next morning while I was in the shower she reached in and soundly slapped my wet butt leaving it with a sweet sting. She admonished my to keep my hands off 'her property' except to wash. The next nite the same scene.

To make a long story short......

When she finally gave in I was about to burst and lunged at the opportunity. It was like running into a brick wall. Her stern words told me that SHE was going to have it HER way.

Ever since it has been HER way and on HER time.

So, how did she know I would respond favorably?

She had picked up on a few hints from reading and talking to other women. I had always enjoyed fixing her a nice candlelight bubble bath, and bathing her while she sipped wine. It relaxed her to the point she would crawl in bed and drift off, leaving me to fend for myself. Many times I would try to take her in her sleep only to be stopped and told just for that, I'd get none tomorrow either.

Somehow, she sensed that I was enjoying this bit of restriction....A sort of punishment. From here on, it progressed into quite the game with her becoming more creative all the time. I was told I was no longer to relieve myself no matter how long I had to wait for her. (That was a tough one.) Then she would play on that even.

Shortly she began to experiment with the erotic side of pain. Not the hard core stuff, just pinches, swats and some tying to the bed. More and more she demanded oral attention a couple times in the evening, making me wait (and, not touch myself) till after her bath.....if she stayed awake.

I was, and after several years, still am ecstatically in love with her and our wonderfully fun relationship. So, if you think you would like to see if your man is up for it, I say go for it. Start out simple and move forward gently (but firmly) and experiment with reasonable, safe games. Only the two of you can find your limits and fulfill both your expectations.

Have fun, be safe.