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How do adult children deal with a narcissistic father who torments them with his behavior?
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∙ 17y ago
DISTANCE YOURSELF!!! Don't take the abuse! *I have FINALLY been enlightened as to what I've been dealing with all these years. Wow! There is a GOD! I'm an adult child of a narcisstic father, and I had to gain "Radical Acceptance" of his illness and the fact that he can't change or control himself. It's so sad really. I've decided that I absolutely have to set bounderies in this relationship, if I don't, he'll run me over and I'll be upset AGAIN that I didn't stand up for myself and my family. Distance from this toxic and harmful relationship is necessary to keep your self-esteem and worthiness intact. If these are already in tact and unshakable, then when your dealing with him you can respond with "I understand what your saying," "I have different feelings about that," etc.. Use I messages so that he doesn't feel threatened. Just keep telling yourself that he's ill. How would you treat a sick person? Best Of Luck to you
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Are there different severities of narcissism?
I am not a psychologist, just an observer to the decades of narcissistic behavior in a bad narcissistic father. From everything I have observed and also studied up on and read, narcissism does seem to get worse with advancing age. At 95, I see that there is little left in NDad EXCEPT the narcissistic agenda.
Can a narcissistic father put life long violent behavior on hold for the kids?
A narcissistic father cannot put a life long violent behaviour on hold for the kids because for him HE is the center of the universe and his wife and kids are only there to serve him, his needs, without him feeling any emphatie for them.
what is the father behavior?
A good father teaches his children how to respect their mother, and this he does by respecting his partner. He honors her views and does not argue with her in class
Does domestic violence in society affect children behavior?
Yes. If a boy sees his father beating his mother he will grow up thinking that is acceptable when it is not!
How where the children punished?
Sometimes children would get punished by the father holding his child over a fire (that is burning peppers) from a distance and forcing them to breath in the stinging fumes while lecturing his child about his behavior.
Who is the father of Celie's children in the color purple?
Celies father is the father of her children
Is it okay to keep a 4 yo son from a narcissistic father who is brainwashing the child sole custody is with mother?
I believe it is. Im doing it. Have to think of the children. If you dont want them to be the same way then you have to remove them from the relationship all together. You have to think about your children. They are very fragile and it can hurt them in the long run if you dont do something.
How are your dad's children and his cousin's children related?
The children of your father and the children of your father's first cousin are second cousins to each other. The children of your father and the children of your father's second cousin are third cousins to each other.
Who is important weather parents or teaches for the development of children education?
Parents are very important than teachers because the child becomes good or bad depending the mother or father. Their behavior mostly comes to children with their heredity.
Who was the father of Gaea's children?
The father of Gaea's children was Ouranos (Uranus).
What is the duration of The Father of My Children?
The duration of The Father of My Children is 1.87 hours.
How do you make sure my children do not turn out like their narcisstic father?
Pay them attention and love them as much as you can...more if you were raised in a dysfunctional environment. And keep their father as far away as possible - I think that is what does even more damage than a distant mother, the abusive narcissistic parent is the one that forces them to retreat to a fantasy world where they are safe and omnipotent.
