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How do girls flirt?

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You can flirt with your body language, like smiling at someone from across the room; flirt with words, like in a conversation or over text message; flirt using touch, like touching someone's arm to make a point. ... People flirt in many different ways, and the girl may be too shy to flirt with you in an obvious way.

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8y ago

The following applies to American culture. Unlike women, men don't usually have the luxury of waiting for the opposite sex to approach them with come-ons. Therefore, most men are forced to be the initiators of contact between the sexes. Opportunities for many men are limited, for a number of reasons (physical appearance, emotional maturity, confidence level). Therefore, whereas women may flirt just to see if they're "still attractive," most men normally don't waste their opportunities for vanity's sake. Men have definite interpersonal goals in mind, which can range from casual sex to seeking a life partner. When it comes to dealing with the opposite sex, most guys picture themselves in two categories: 1) clumsy, 2) smooth. Guys know that women want to see confidence, and so the self-image he has of himself may clash with this unnerving knowledge. Thus, we see guys who try too hard, guys who bluster and brag, guys who are totally intimidated. Experience with women (more than maturity) allows a guy to be "smooth." "Smooth" is not necessarily a bad thing, for its general definition is, "not sending the girl running in the other direction." As for flirting itself: when a guy DOES flirt, it means he has enough experience with women to have a certain level of confidence. Flirting activity can range from simple conversation to all sorts of closeness, and its meaning can be anything from friendship to marriage. If all of this sounds confusing, it is because men and women think differently. HOW GUYS FLIRT

He stares at you alot,

uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a conversation,

he "hits" you.

He mocks you to make you laugh.He calls you cute or pretty and it makes you smile.

He worries about you and your problems along with his own.He is PROTECTIVE. He always stays close when he can.He looks STRAIGHT in your eyes. He listens to you and remembers the things you say

.He will sometimes say something to remind you you've said it in the past.He takes pictures of you even though you say you hate it.

When guys flirt they:

1. Compliment you

2. Try to make you happy

3. Smile at you sometimes

4. Look at you (IT DOESNT MATTER IF YOURE LOOKING OR NOT)

5. Act like they are only a really close friend.

It is really, really hard to tell when a guy likes you but its not impossible.

Get your friends to help you out.

Ask them for advice. Ask them if they think someone likes you.

If they think a guy likes you, ask them to help you out.

Your friend could act as a spy for you. They could watch you that guyacts around other girls.

If your friend doesnt really want to help, you can always do it yourself.

Just watch how this guy acts around you, then how he acts around other girls.

If he is calm, and cool around you, he probably likes you.

REMEMBER: If you dont have any, you should get some guy friends.

Dont tell them that you are suspicious about another guy. Build your trust with them and they will tell you if one of the guys that they are friends with likes you.

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13y ago

Girls will start by smiling, a lot. Firstly, they will make eye contact but most will look away shortly after you look into their eyes; this is good as it makes her more comfortable with looking deeply into eachothers eyes. She will try to stay close by you, but if she doesn't she wants to test if you will come to her first. Girls do this a lot, they will start convosations and lead the relationship some days and other days they will stay small and quiet hoping you take over.

She will put both hands by her sides, usually with one hand slighty out so you can take it. Holding hands is the best way to start if you want to build up a relationship. She will be a little timid with physical contact, so taking her hand will make her more friendly to you and contact becomes a simple thing.

Once holding hands has become a regular thing, you should try to hug her. Boys will worry that she will reject the hug or that they will mess up, but girls dream of being in the boy's arms and hugs come with instinct. Messing up won't happen. By accepting your hug this is another flirt.

Girls do not bat their eyelashes at boys, they naturally blink a little more than boys do, but if a girl is flirting with you like this she is only trying to get attention. If a boy only likes a girl for her appearance, she will not be happy after a while. Loving her personality is very important. Being a jerk is not how to get her. Listnen to what she says, remember what she says, be very protective, and be really caring.

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15y ago

Its kinda hard sometimes to tell if a guy is flirting with you! but if the guy is shy if his flirting with you he will try to give you a smile everytime you look at him, he might blush around you or he might just look at you from far ( if his shy). If the guy is really outgoing he might come up to you giving you that smokin look and say that you look hot, he might also act really stupid around you to make you laugh, he might also touch your arm or shoulder smiling at you ( if the guy is outgoing) i hope i helped:)

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12y ago

Girls are really easy flirts and they may not even know their doing it, but they are. I apparently have this problem, but I do know that if I'm trying to flirt I bat my eyelashes a lot, flip my hair, am invested in the conversation, laugh at jokes, make my own jokes and try to be generally outgoing. When girls flirt they try to be coy and stealthy, but if a girl is legit hitting on you, you'll know :P Hope I helped ;)

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14y ago

There is no general answer to this because every guy likes it different. Just like every guy has his way of flirting, there is a way of flirting back that he will like. For example, I myself don't really like the girl to flirt at all. I flirt by teasing a little and hiding little compliments in the teasing, and I don't like the girl to really flirt back but rather to giggle shyly and show she likes me flirting with her by telling me off jokingly.

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12y ago

guys like girls who would do anything with them and be with them all the time and they like thing like holding hand , kissing , and are kind of he same to they guy

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14y ago

Many boys and men have trouble picking up some of the subtle signals which constitute flirting. If you like someone maybe it would be best to come out and say it.

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12y ago

It depends on they age. I am 13 and to flirt i giggle and smile ALOT i also play with my hair and try to be as close to him as possible at all times ...

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