How do men have solo sex?

Answer 1

Take a nice hot bath. Get into bed (or someplace else that's comfortable and private) and start to explore your body. Have a towel or two handy.

Human bodies have what are known as "erogenous zones". When these places are stimulated, we get turned on. Just about any part of the body can be an erogenous zone. For the overwhelming majority of us, the genital area is an erogenous zone, as is the mouth. The anal opening and the nipples are also common areas.

Do not try to ejaculate immediately -- half the pleasure is getting there. When it comes to "jacking off" -- masturbating -- you will probably want to use a lubricant. Saliva works, but you can also use vaseline, mineral oil, hand lotion, etc. This is another thing to experiment with! Different parts of your penis and testicles will respond differently to different stimuli. Try different pressures and speeds.

Some guys like to add pornography to this mix, maybe even take a break, watch or read some, then go back to their bodies. Other times, they might want to close their eyes and imagine stuff -- anything goes, as long as it remains a fantasy.

This is your body, the only one you will ever have. Get to know it well!