You add them as a friend, then invite them to join your mob. Then once you've either invited them to join your mob or added them to your mob, go to your myspace friends list and delete them as a friend. It wont effect your mobsters mob. It only removes them from the myspace friends list, preventing them from accessing your page if it is set to private.
If you are worried about only adding friends that actually play, then you can go on an adder train website. a good one is Pimpmymob who also has a bot that does everything. Pimp has a free iframe for their site so you can put their train on your chat page for your mob. It moves fast. Its on that site that i learned that there is a 400 a day request limit set by myspace! they do facebook too and have a facebook adder train app. Its not in the facebook search, but there is a link on the site.
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While Pimpmymob is a good site as so described above, if you goto freefavorpoints.com you will find an add train of over 15,000 people for myspace mobsters and around 1000 for facebook mobsters. The best part of this site is it allows you to add 1000's of members in around 5 minutes time. This is possible because its an email add train and show you how to invite at least 45 people at a time, saving you a HUGE amount of time compared to doing it one at a time.
Oh! And 1 tip I always suggest to people, if your worried about adding people you don't know to your personal myspace account just go make a new one used for only playing app games. This allows you to use a fake name, fake location, and not get your true myspace account spammed full of strangers. Take my advice on this, I know from experience. ;)
You can't add them without adding them on myspace first.
you cannot do this what you can do though is add them on myspace, then when they are added you can send them a mobsters invite, then once they have accepted your invite and are in your mob you can delete them on your friends list. they stay on your mob but are no longer on your myspace. i guarantee it works!!!! i have 568 mobsters but only have 203 people in my friends list
try to find out through other people.
Yes
Never say own, for starters. And without being rude? Be honest, tell them what you think and how you feel about the situation, but don't be cocky about it. Be calm, reasonable, and down-to-earth.
you just hide it .
You Can't!
By being yourself, and talking to people
When you have ten days of seniority and have neutral or positive karma, you can send things to people if they are your friends. With 30 days of seniority, you can send things to people without them being your friend.
you can ask his/her friends, or people that know the person well enough to be able to understand his/her body language
You have to be good.
If one of your friends is online you double click on their screen name.
On the internet. So long as you are humorous, without being rude or vulgar, you can easily make good friends.