Dr. and Mrs.
You can address a retired doctor and his wife as "Dr. and Mrs. (Last Name)" when speaking to them formally. If you are on more familiar terms, you could simply address them by their first names.
You can address a retired colonel as "Colonel (Last Name)" and his wife as "Mrs. (Last Name)" or "Colonel (Last Name) and Mrs. (Last Name)" in the salutation of a letter.
You can address a retired state senator as "Senator [Last Name]" and his wife as "Mrs. [Last Name]" or "Senator [Last Name]." If they no longer hold their titles, you can address them by their first names in a formal setting.
You can address the envelope to a retired judge by using their full name followed by "Retired Judge" on the line below, and then their mailing address. For example: "John Doe Retired Judge 123 Main Street Anytown, USA."
You would address a retired Rear Admiral as "Rear Admiral (Retired) [Full Name]" on the envelope and in the salutation of the letter.
The proper way to address a label for a retired priest would be "Reverend [First Name] [Last Name]." The title "Reverend" is appropriate for a retired priest as a sign of respect for their past role in the clergy.
You can address a retired colonel as "Colonel (Last Name)" and his wife as "Mrs. (Last Name)" or "Colonel (Last Name) and Mrs. (Last Name)" in the salutation of a letter.
You can address a retired state senator as "Senator [Last Name]" and his wife as "Mrs. [Last Name]" or "Senator [Last Name]." If they no longer hold their titles, you can address them by their first names in a formal setting.
Captain and Mrs.....
Doctor Smith and his wife Reverend Smith (assuming she is using his last name).
The Rt. Revd. Bishop A.B. Smith
Dr. Mary Smith and Mr. James Doe
Mr. and Dr. Joseph Smith (indicates the wife is the doctor)
When addressing an envelope to the wife of a doctor who is not a doctor herself then and he is Dr. John Doe, then address the envelope to her as Mrs. John Doe or Ms. (Mrs.) Jane Doe.
As Mr. & Mrs. You may address the judge in person as judge or your honor as a courtesy. Just be careful not to mislead anyone into thinking he is a sitting judge.
That would be: "Dr. John and Mrs. Jane Whomsoever".
Jim (Jane) Colonel Sir (Ma'am) or Mr/Mrs. Jim/Jane Doe, Col, USAF Retired
You may always address the Jude as Judge for life as a courtesy, but the spouse never did or never will have an official title unless they acquire one on their own merit.