Use the term Honorable Judge on the envelope. For example Honorable Judge Smith and Mrs. Smith. On the invitation Judge Smith and Mrs. Smith would be fine.
Reverend & Mrs.
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The Honorable Nelson A. Rockefeller and Mrs. Rockefeller
Simply send the invitation to her, in her name. Bear in mind that if she is in a committed marriage this is not a polite thing to do. If her marriage is in some way compromised, just ring her with a personal invitation.
To the wife only, just as Mrs. She has no title of her own.
As Mr. & Mrs. You may address the judge in person as judge or your honor as a courtesy. Just be careful not to mislead anyone into thinking he is a sitting judge.
This will depend upon if it is an official or social invitaion as to how to address. If this is for a Judge of a Lower Court the Envelope for official should be addressed as:The HonorableJohn DoeUnited States Court of (name the court)(City, State, zip)For a social addressing of the envelope:The HonorableJohn Doeand Mrs. DoeThe inside invitation would be addressed as: Judge (and Mrs. ) Doe
The address should read (an example): Dr. John Doe and Mayor Jane Doe.
Address it to Mr & Mrs. Jones. That is universally understood.
Mr and Mrs (last name here) David and Joan (last name here) (last name here) family
You may always address the Jude as Judge for life as a courtesy, but the spouse never did or never will have an official title unless they acquire one on their own merit.
It would read; Judge John Smith and Mrs. Edith Smith; or Mr and Mrs. John Smith. You don't have to put the job titles in. If one has a PhD you could include that.