1.Find someone to dance with. You can't slow dance alone, at least not without looking, well, slow. If you brought a date, you'll probably want to ask him or her to dance. If not, find a partner. Set the mood by looking that person in the eyes when you ask him or her to dance.
2.Get your partner on the dance floor. Escort your partner to the dance floor slowly and smoothly. If you're already on the dance floor, the key here may be to keep yourself and your partner on the dance floor--no easy task if one or both of you is nervous about slow dances. If your partner is nervous, tell him or her that there's nothing to worry about, and be understanding if he or she doesn't want to dance. If you're nervous, don't show it.
3.Assume the position. Face your partner, standing so that your head is about a foot or two away from his or hers. Standing toe-to-toe may not be the optimal position. Some couples stand offset, with each person's right foot inside the other persons pair; some partners may have the woman's feet to the inside of the man's. If you are a teen you can always place both hands on the girl's hip (if you're a man.) and if you are a girl place both arms around his neck.
4.Assess your relationship with your partner. You need to know where to put your hands and how close to dance. This doesn't need to be awkward. Keep in mind that the right-hand-left-hand directions here can be reversed if you are both more comfortable that way.
6.Follow the music. Your steps should move roughly in time to the beat of the music so that you make a step every beat or so. This is not as hard as it might sound since the music will most likely be slow during a slow dance.
7.Interact with your partner. For most of us, a slow dance is more about being close to your partner and getting to know each other than it is about moving. Feel free to talk to your partner, to look into his or her eyes and, if the situation is appropriate, to steal a kiss or two. If you're both in a romantic mood, you may draw each other closer as the dance progresses.
8.Thank your partner for the dance. Whether you're dancing with your wife of 60 years or someone you've never met before, thank your partner. You won't lead someone on with a simple "Thanks for the dance."
9.Continue to the next dance or retreat gracefully. Once you're comfortable with slow dances, you might not want to flee the floor as quickly as possible--one dance is just the beginning. If, however, you've had enough dancing for the moment, retreat from the dance floor. Ladies, if you have to go find your girl friends and squeal about the cute guy you just danced with, go do it. Guys, if you need to go brag about the cute girl you just danced with, do it. Offer to escort your partner to his or her table or wherever they want to go, or ask him or her if they would like to retreat if you want to do so. Keep in mind, however, that retreating may also be used to find a place of relief from someone who may want to dance with you again, but with whom you don't want another dance.
that's easy, you just grab the signifigant other and hold them close and just sway with the music, the best thing about a dance is that no one is watching if your dancing right, or judging you. and make simple convorsation while dancing, it lightens up the tension.
U walk up to her and ask her. Then lead her to the floor. Then she puts her hands on hour shoulders and you lightly put your hands on her waist. Then you just sway back and forth to the music and have a fun time.
Usually she will put her hands on your shoulder (and your hands go on her hips) and she'll look into your eyes. Sometimes if they're shy they won't. Really, there's no way of truly knowing. Just ask!
Not necessarily. I, for one, ask my guy friends all the time at dances when there is a slow song. Have you only talked to her once (like when you were dancing) or are you guys good friends or something? If she is flirting with you, then she probably likes you. Does that help?
one of the thing you can do is ask a friend to ask her or just ask her ur self
like you would dance with any other person
It means that she could like you as more than a friend.
Some people are just touchy-feely types
to go with her and dance slowly
If you know that she likes you and she asks you to dance, she is just trying to get close to you. Dancing can also be very intimate so she might want to be close in that way as well. Is that really so hard to figure?
Will you go to the dance with me?
the guy likes the girl and would like to dance with her.
you "fast dance"
In some cases yes, it may mean the girl likes you and prefers to be closer to you when slow dancing, but, she also could simply like dancing.
Ray Ray likes a girl who's confident,has style, loves braids,likes to sing and dance,and who likes him for him. He also likes a girl who is,caring,honest,and trust able.
Simple... just ask her.
Kiss him while your dancing.
It's ok for a girl to go to a dance with a guy but if the girl likes the guy you may want to go to the dance with her not him!!!