How do you ask a guy colleague out?

Answer 1

Hi, well, if I were you I actually wouldn't. Unless you work for an extremely relaxed company, an affaire/romance with a colleague is very likely to bring negative consequences to your career, and may even risk your or his continued employment there. While I wouldn't recommend it, I can't say I haven't done it. So, first you establish what you have in common with this fella. Does he like sports? The easiest, since he'd probably want to do this anyway, is to say "________ is playing tonight and I was thinking about heading over to _______ for a beer after work to watch... what are you doing later?" Then it's totally informal. Find out where he hangs out too, by just asking him occasionally what did you do last night? Just don't hound him and give yourself enought time to collect information that it seems very nonchalant.... Good luck.